How do I get back at someone who strangled me many times to the point where I ended up in the emergency room to have the neck and head scans show that I was badly abused/strangled, put a gun to my face, manipulated me, cheated on me, called me crazy until I did come crazy and cut my wrist because I just wanted to die. People tell me that divorcing him and working on myself is a form of getting back at him but I say NO! How does this person get to walk away clean after the many times he abused while I am broken and alone. There has to be a way for him to pay and learn that abusing a female is NOT OKAY!! Even after I work on myself and eventually with time become a better person I will always remember these dark days and I will know that he got away with it and is out there living his life while he broke mine.
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You can press charges and land him in jail, that’s a good way of getting revenge. :/
if the cops failed to prosecute then fuck them. a civil suit is your answer.
This life is short and when its over whatever he did to you will be nothing compared to what the devil has instore for him in hell and it will never end for all eternity.
from one violent abuse victim to another, //don’t take things into your own hands//! Law enforcement can and will handle it. The most revenge you can take on him is a) ruining his life by filing as many suits and reports as you can, b) healing. going to therapy. getting your ptsd treated. it’s the biggest way to say “fuck you, I’m stronger than you think I am”. Keep him OUT of your life. Sever all contact. I know the deeply rooted Stockholm syndrome is hard and the seething anger makes you want to just kick and scream at him, but it’s going to make you feel worse. I promise you you’re not alone.