Do you know what you’re NOT into? Do you know what you DONT want? The opposite of what you don’t want is what you DO want. For example, if you don’t want to be overweight, then that means that you do want to have a healthy bodyweight.
Start with what you don’t want/like and go from there.
Another example: I wouldn’t like working fast food. It’s fast-paced, people treat you like shit, and it doesn’t pay well. That means that what I WOULD like is something that pays well, allows me to take my time, and I feel valued as a person. It’s the opposite of what I didn’t like.
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Do you know what you’re NOT into? Do you know what you DONT want? The opposite of what you don’t want is what you DO want. For example, if you don’t want to be overweight, then that means that you do want to have a healthy bodyweight.
Start with what you don’t want/like and go from there.
Another example: I wouldn’t like working fast food. It’s fast-paced, people treat you like shit, and it doesn’t pay well. That means that what I WOULD like is something that pays well, allows me to take my time, and I feel valued as a person. It’s the opposite of what I didn’t like.
I can relate.
I’m 40 yrs old from Indonesia, which makes me a failure/loser.
I’m heavily depressed & suicidal.
Oh my god, yes! Every excitement died somehow and I don’t know what I want to become. Actually I want to be nothing.