My girlfriend broke up with me, I still can’t get over her it’s been a couple of days and I still like her I have told her that and i am attempting to get with her again and in case you guys care I read every comment and listen to them most of the time it happened because I called her out for something she did it ended up in an argument and I called her a ***** a couple of times and her friends (one of them being my ex) told her to break up with me so she did. I have told her I still love her, and we are still friends, but I still want to be more then friends any suggestions?
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I don’t know if it’ll help, it’s just what I did back when I was unmarried; I started trying to just move forward. No going back and trying to make it work, especially when the other person isn’t game.
The best relationship advice I can give is this; become okay with being alone. People can tell when you are clinging to them because you’re afraid, so the trick is to not be afraid. Not an easy thing, but there it is.
How long were you two dating? Break ups are the worse. Especially when u don’t see them coming. Having BPD myself, break ups were very life changing to me. Not in the good way though. I honestly would cut your lost with her because if she did it once, it can happen again. It won’t be easy though. Takes time to get over people. I saw that you’re still friends with her, which is good. You always have the choice to keep the friendship or end things completely. If it becomes too much for you, it might be best to delete anything that reminds you of her. Just a thought. I hope you push through it. Just give it time and spend some time by yourself. Maybe go do something you love doing or hanging with friends when the time is right.