Her birthday is two days after mine. I was thinking about sending her a Happy Birthday message. In the end, I don’t think I’m going to do it. So many things could go wrong. What if she doesn’t respond? What if she does respond? What do I say then? What will she think of it? I haven’t talked to her in a year (more or less).
I want to rekindle our friendship. I miss having friends but I miss being her friend especially. But I know that I’m not willing to put in the effort and I know that if she rejects me it’ll break me.
I’m still not over her. I don’t know if I’ll ever be over her. It’s pathetic and it’s bad for my brain but I don’t want to let her go because I miss her. I miss her so much that it hurts.
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I say go for it, because what have you got to lose? You could keep it simple–just say, “Happy Birthday”. How she responds is on her.
I don’t really have anything to “lose” but I just don’t want to come off as creepy. That, and if she doesn’t reply I’ll feel stupid.
I say go for it to. If she doesn’t respond, then she doesn’t respond and nothing changes. But if you don’t try, you’ll never know. A simple birthday message will show her you are at least thinking about her and that you care. I mean you bothered to remember her birthday.