days are going by slowly, but time is going by fast, if that makes sense. there’s a lot of things going on an i barel have time to breathe or think, so i guess that’s not too bad.
something did happen recently that has me feeling… complicated? i’m not sure how to explain how it feels, but i need a second opinion because i just don’t know if i’m overreacting.
i’ve been on a few dates with someone, and we were getting along well. last two dates they got pretty intense, a bit handsy (?) i guess. first time was okay i guess, didn’t mind much since it wasn’t a big deal tbh. last week though, it was…. different. i said no to a couple things, but they didn’t really take it seriously and kept pushing it. i can’t lie, i was a bit terrified. they could VERY EASILY overpower me completely, both in size and strenght. that, and we were in their car, so i didn’t really have anywhere to go. it makes me a bit nauseous when i remember that honestly. i mentioned that i felt very scared and that i needed a bit of space to think about it, but i’m not sure if i’m overthinking it or if i’m overreacting.
was it not a big deal?
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He lost me at handsy. By the time you got to “I said no” that was a full stop. He’s a full on creep, and it’s a good thing you got away in one piece. It was absolutely a big deal and you should definitely ghost his ass.
Don’t let him gaslight you. He told you “you’re overreacting” and that “it’s no big deal” did he? Guys will downplay that shit all the time.
If a guy already won’t respect you this early on, he definitely won’t later on if/when you get more serious.
Yes, ghost him.