runs in the family

I tried to commit suicide in 2002. My children were young at the time. My daughter was 11. My boys were 6 and 7 years old. My daughter has since been affected by this. She is now 18 but had tried 2 times. Hospitalized both times. Now, today, she is suicidal. crying and sad. Not feel like eating. She doesn’t want to eat, can’t sleep and doesn’t want to feel like this anymore. I don’t know what I can say to her anymore to help her. I want her to feel good and alive again and not go through this feeling anymore. She is on 3 different meds. She is being treated for bi polar, but she has not been diagnoed with Bi polar, but she is stable when she is on the meds. She is so sweet and kind and has a good heart and I hate that she feels like this. What scares her is living with these feelings all her life. and it scares me too b/c I love her so much I want her to have a good life. Suicide is a way to get out of her feelings, not to end her life. I want to help her but I am stuck b/c I feel like everything I say or do hurts her more.