Uh..Hi fellow internet people out there….I’m new here and I’m a big loser……at least that’s what everyone says…
Anyways, I have A LOT of problems, but I try not to show them or let people know I have these problems.
I am unintelligent, ugly, shy, depressed, chubby, anti-social. and terrible at everything….
Now you know a little about me and thank you if you’re reading this
Have a good day or night,
From, LG (Losergirl)
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Hi… Welcome to SP. I don’t think you’re any of the characteristics that you described. Perhaps you’re being somewhat hard on yourself?
… if you are depressed and you want to talk about it, feel free to share. Depression is a demon I’m battling, too. It’s crushing me.
Thank you for your kind words, but I am fine…..for now
Hi AwesomeGirl. I’m calling you awesome instead of loser because you need to psychologically pick yourself up not put yourself down.
Intelligence is subjective. I guarantee you know things on subjects it just might not be the conventional crap we are taught in school which is fine because most of that crap doesn’t matter in the real world. I haven’t used Algebra since 2002
Shy & anti-social isn’t a problem at all.
Ugly doesn’t really exist either. Chubby doesn’t matter either.
What matters is how you feel.
Hi LG,
From a personal point of view I can esteem the negative qualities you are feeling towards myself. I too at times have felt the way you have and then some, but this is not about me. Allow yourself the time and opportunity to find your own calling. To find your own sense of beauty in this life. Allow yourself to FIGHT the behaviors of shyness and go out there and experience the world on your own terms. We all have problems or issues that we are facing, find a way out of them or find a way to sustain them so you have sanity and a peace of mind. You shouldn’t care if you’re chubby, think of it this way… If you were slim, got married and gained weight with the love of your life and they left you because of that after the memories, sacrifices, words etc. involved, where would you be? But I get the feeling of someone believing they are ugly.. it’s not nice nor comforting and is a strange dilemma to escape. Find your own sense of beauty in this world, establish it and hold on to it and allow it to strengthen you. Hope. Take Care.
Calling yourself a “loser” won’t make things any better. You shouldn’t say that about yourself.
“Why not? It’s true. I am a loser” you might be thinking. Who decided that? Who has the right to make that decision. No one does. Only you can decide how much you are worth. Only if you believe it will it become a reality.
“unintelligent, ugly, shy, depressed, chubby, anti-social. and terrible at everything.”
Have you tried everything yet?
“Why bother? I’ll just be bad at it anyway.”, you might be thinking. You won’t know until you try. And you might not only be good at it, but you might really enjoy it. Or, you might really enjoy it, but not be so good at it, but that’s OK because you’ll be willing to work to become better.
I’m shy and antisocial. I’ve accepted that it’s who I am. I don’t want to change that. I embrace my time alone with my thoughts. I make friends on the internet and that’s more suitable for me. To each their own.
What is “intelligent”? You can be really good at a skill without being intelligent. There are a lot of people who are really good at what they do without having “book smarts”.
Chubbiness and Depression can be fixed. It’s hard to eat healthy or get exercise, when you are depressed, but I can guarantee that if you can muster up the strength to put on running shoes and clothes, stretch for 10 minutes, and go running…even for 10 minutes, you’ll feel SO MUCH better when you are done. Try to make it a habit and do it a few times a week. You will slowly lose weight and you might even lift your depression.
I know it’s really really hard because I did it myself. I said “I’m going to go running today! Definitely!” and day after day I was too depressed to do it. And then I FINALLY did it and I was so happy I did. Running is such a great way to lose weight and feel good about yourself.
It might take you a while to find what you are good at. But you’ll find it. Try different things.
Or just really get into something you like and study about it in your free time.
For example, I never took a computer class in my life. But I love computers. I studied on my own how to build and fix computers. Then I built my own. Now, I can help almost anyone with PC trouble. I even had a job for a few years as a support tech at a university. Not because of school, but because of my hobby and my own initiative to learn something.
So you can learn a new skill and become good at something, especially if you have an interest in it.
What are you interested in?
Thanks AmIStuck now. Your words just made my day. You are right and shouldnt let us define by other people. #IAmAwesome