have you ever had that experience where you feel like after loving someone for a long time you all of a sudden feel like you’ve been lying to yourself and doubt your feelings and you feel like talking about it to them but then you’re scared of losing something so great?
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Sometimes love isn’t the type of love we thought. Companionship can be a huge need in life. When we have it, along with attention, we might confuse our fulfilled need for companionship with love. It’s often not deliberate so I wouldn’t suggest anyone was lying about love.
I’m not sure what the situation is in this case but that’s one explanation.
Are you worried about losing the friend, companion, intimacy, or perhaps something else?
i’m afraid to lose this person and what we have as well as i might do something i’ll regret.
Think about it. If you’re unsure, don’t say anything for now. Once you say it, it’s said… so there’s nothing wrong with being cautious.
No. I’ve admired someone from afar, and then gone off them over time.