When I’m sad and upset no one comforts me either. But that’s because no one cares. I don’t have anyone that actually cares about me. This isn’t something new to me. I’ve experienced this all my adult life. I learnt quite quickly at the start that I have no one when I’m down and out. So I know comfort myself. Either by talking to myself nicely or kicking myself up the arse or saying it will be over one day and the pain won’t last forever, or ordering fast food and pigging out, I once cut myself after a break up, vegging out in front of the TV, or going gym, drugs, drink, praying, etc.
One only time I even had someone who just hugged me to comfort me. It was the best way to be comforted. It beats everything else I tried on my own. Someone else caring makes all the difference.
I’m sorry you have no one to comfort you, if it helps, you should know that you’re not the only one who experiences this.
I have my mom but I can’t do this to her anymore. I’m just a burden at this point so I’m like you in that I have to do it myself. I’m so tired of bringing everyone down with me. I wish that I didn’t have to deal with myself! If I could step out of myself I would punch me in the face and say “stop it”! Like LordsWrath said…you are not alone. I find comfort in knowing people like you understand me…and I understand you. I hope this helps, my friend…
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I feel ya. Seems like we gotta comfort ourselves because every1 else is out their living lives n bein happy n people like us just bring em down
Thank you
When I’m sad and upset no one comforts me either. But that’s because no one cares. I don’t have anyone that actually cares about me. This isn’t something new to me. I’ve experienced this all my adult life. I learnt quite quickly at the start that I have no one when I’m down and out. So I know comfort myself. Either by talking to myself nicely or kicking myself up the arse or saying it will be over one day and the pain won’t last forever, or ordering fast food and pigging out, I once cut myself after a break up, vegging out in front of the TV, or going gym, drugs, drink, praying, etc.
One only time I even had someone who just hugged me to comfort me. It was the best way to be comforted. It beats everything else I tried on my own. Someone else caring makes all the difference.
I’m sorry you have no one to comfort you, if it helps, you should know that you’re not the only one who experiences this.
Thanks, much love
I have my mom but I can’t do this to her anymore. I’m just a burden at this point so I’m like you in that I have to do it myself. I’m so tired of bringing everyone down with me. I wish that I didn’t have to deal with myself! If I could step out of myself I would punch me in the face and say “stop it”! Like LordsWrath said…you are not alone. I find comfort in knowing people like you understand me…and I understand you. I hope this helps, my friend…
Yes
I have the very same problem – I’m sorry this is the way things are for you – and I hope it helps to know that I’m sending caring thoughts your way
Thanks