I’m behind in school because I literally cannot concentrate on anything. I’ve tried telling my parents for the last two years and it’s always “drink water and eat something” but it never works! I literally haven’t read a single book in a year. Does anyone have tips to be able to concentrate better? Also I got stabbing pains in my chest and stomach last night and was woozy because it hurt so much and I got panicked that I was having a heart attack any idea what this is? Could that be anxiety? Does anyone else get that?
6 comments
Maybe you have ADD? I get distracted pretty bad and i don’t even try to do it on purpose. If the problem is just purposeful procrastination, I don’t know how to help you there. But if you really are trying your hardest to concentrate and you seem to never get anything done no matter how bad you want to, try seeing a doctor or a psychologist to help prescribe your problems.(Ask them if you can be tested for ADD/ADHD) That’s what I did and the medicine they gave me gets me really good grades instead of F’s.
I was once given a comprehensive test of my mental faculties (think an IQ test with all the extras). An advantage of that is that they can get a more precise idea of what you struggle with – e.g. is it concentration, or short-term memory, or long-term memory, etc.
Apart from that, how do you sleep? Most people need 7-9 hours per night, and you should go to bed at the same time every evening (you could set an alarm for bedtime). The best time to go to bed is between 9 p.m. and midnight, depending on whether you’re a morning person or a night owl. Don’t expect this to work wonders immediately – give your body plenty of time to adjust.
When I get my sleep, I find that I feel more resilient – even if I’m depressed, I feel better able to handle it. I also find myself much more relaxed around others, partly because I feel comfortable in my own head and am less distracted by what’s going on around me. Sometimes I lie awake waiting for the alarm to go off in the morning. Or I wake up in the middle of the night and lie thinking for a while. At first, it’s hard to avoid the temptation to check my phone or get up and go online. But that would ruin my sleep, because of the light exposure (and the not sleeping part). I feel like I get some productive thinking done during these times. Another benefit of getting your sleep is that not just your mind, but your whole body gets healthier – so you look better. And it improves your willpower, making it easier to make smart decisions. Finally, I feel like my days are longer. Because I’m more awake, time doesn’t fly by as much, and that is nice, because I can enjoy my free time then. I may be fooling myself, but I also feel like it makes work easier.
Anyway, good luck!
Thanks! And I would want to see what’s wrong with me but nobody takes my problems seriously enough to bring me. And yeah I suck at going to bed because I don’t feel motivated to even get ready for bed :(.
You’re welcome 🙂
Is this something you could maybe talk to a school counselor about, that you want this kind of evaluation? Dyslexic pupils can sometimes get help, maybe that would be possible if you find it hard to concentrate?
Yeah, the motivation thing can be really hard. Maybe you can get as ready as possible earlier in the evening (e.g. brush your teeth), and plan something nice for the morning, so that you have something to look forward to when you get up?
Anyway, would really advise you to try to at least find some kind of therapist to talk to, because it can help to not be alone with your worries.
Yeah I think it might help but I’m scared to ask for help again because I did once and nobody thought my problems were serious enough to warrant help…
I understand. What can I say? It’s like applying for jobs, you may have to ask multiple people before someone accepts you and takes you seriously. And please don’t agree to anything that feels wrong. I regret letting myself be talked into taking medication. But therapy of some kind might help you.