I don’t know what to do in this life, I don’t know what is real, do you? They make me suffer, these 2 persons I live with, I want to change some things, what should I do?
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Don’t live with people who make you suffer. It’d be best to live on your own. If you have a medical issue that prevents you from working then perhaps you can receive a disability income, this will allow you to live independently.
Never live with anyone that has power over you in any way or can make your life miserable. As Sartre once said “hell is other people.”
Thanks for advice
Happy to help.
I can get some money for my health issue but they are too small amount to let me live independently
Then you probably need to get a job where you can work from home. I know they’re not easy to find but some people make a living that way.
Or if you’re able to work part-time you could do an office job/call center work. Just search google you can get a lot of ideas that way.
Ok
Sartre was right there.
He definitely was. While in some cases we have no choice but to depend on others (like family/friends/job, etc), I try as hard as I can to be independent of anyone.
There’s nothing worse than someone you hate (or hates you) and they have power over your life in some way. Being independent is having your own power and freedom.
Having someone over you that you hate/hates you is miserable. Being as independent as far as we can be is so desirable. Being interdependent is very nice if the opportunity presents itself with just the right person(s). Yes, having your own power and freedom is something I value.
Agreed, it would be great to find someone who can be a life partner, that’s the ideal because there is always someone there to help each other out.
Relationships have their problems too-but if both people are rational/fair/patient then it’s mutually beneficial.
Unfortunately under capitalism there is no real “safety net.” So if a child is being abused they can’t exactly “run away” though they’d like to. The ones who do end up being forced into prostitution or worse.
We should have a system which allows people to live on their own, covers their basic needs and if they work, they can earn more on top of that, but I digress.
I do have a partner, selected with great care, during about a two year search, followed by about another 6 months of making as sure as one could. This was one of my best decisions in life, made over 10 years ago. Notably I am still on here any way tho.
Your next two paragraphs where on my mind a lot throughout my teens. I wanted some other place to live than my family of origin as they were ever the toxic sort. But it was either endure them or suicide. Great choices (sarcasm).