I think I am bisexual, but I am not sure I am biromantic. I can’t see myself ending up with a girl for my entire life, but there was this one girl who I knew throughout high school that I’m coming to terms with liking. Is it normal to be bisexual but not want anyone you know to know? Like I’m not ashamed of it; I just don’t want anyone to treat me differently. Same reason I never told anyone about self harming.
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Good move something’s the world doesn’t need to know.
I assume it’s normal, to want to conceal that a bit. People suck and it’s hard to really know how accepting they’ll be, but if you want to share it and feel safe doing so then that’s also maybe good xD (if that’s something you want to do)
I feel very uncomfortable after accidentally revealing some things to my sister and her husband, but they seem okay with it…. It just is weird with them knowing -_- Maybe in a few more months I’ll get used to it.
Good luck.
Oh yes derp, and if you never want people to know that’s entirely fine too ^_^
Well a lot of the people in the LGBTQ community are murdered. It’s understandable to not want anyone to know because some people are still so strongly against it that they will do all they can to make your life hell. Brandon Teena, Marsha P. Johnson, Simon Bush all murdered because of their sexuality/ association with the LGBTQ community. I am a genderqueer lesbian, I wanted to come out, dress in men’s clothing, cut off all my hair. In doing these things I hoped to never have to deal with another male, that they would be unattracted and back off. Idk though because seems like I’m just getting more attention from the predatory type of male that want to rape, & murder me like those other poor genderqueer I listed.
When I came out as lesbian they made me start mental health therapy, the first day after I began my transition, they made me go to the mental hospital. I’d never willingly do these things . I’ve actually been raped or sexually molested 170 times in the last three years since I finished my transition at 21 and started getting followed. Best to not shout it to the world cause if the wrong person finds out, your life will be nothing but abuse