“Since the events that has transpired, there has been no reconciliation, leaving the matter unresolved. The lack of clarity and understanding has reached a point where I feel compelled to take control.
Over the past few weeks, I’ve reflected and prayed on what happened. It was unfair to be placed in a position of responsibility that wasn’t mine, and I was deeply hurt by this, which compromised my sense of integrity. The emotional pain I’ve endured—betrayal, anger, resentment, and heartbreak—has been intense.
After much reflection and prayer, I’ve found the strength to forgive you. However, for the sake of my healing, peace of mind, and heart, I must move on. I will not allow myself to be hurt again, and I no longer feel I can trust you anymore.
Therefore, I have decided to formally end this friendship. This decision is ultimately for my emotional health and peace of mind.”
This is a letter/text I need to send to this person who has deeply hurt me (and her too). This friendship ran deep where we could confide and care for each other during our deepest pain. I hold on to this little hope that things were the way before but it’s really the dread of not having someone to open my heart to. I’m not sure how she feels as a third-party got involved that hindered any communication between us. However, I truly believe my heart won’t open up to her again.