Ok then, I don’t suppose there is much point me lying anymore. I do that a lot, lying, it always seems to be the best way to continue without actually living or letting anything out. The problem is I want to live, I don’t want to be one of these people that just pretends to be someone else and never feels true emotion. I suppose it’s easy, I should know I’ve been doing it for the fourteen years of my life. But these days I just feel myself wanting to scream and breakdown, I don’t want to put a brave face on it; I don’t want to push it aside. I want people to know what and who I am, not the person I pretend to be. I’ve tried I really have, talking to my closest friends; I told them pretty much everything about what I really felt. But either they didn’t believe me, or they didn’t care. I felt so betrayed; I was there for all of them with a shoulder to cry on, even with the most trivial things. I’ve spent my whole life making others feel better and sacrificing my own happiness in the process. I had that all thrown in my face when I told them.
So why? why bother anymore, I devoted my life to others, but when I was in need I was left disserted and alone. So what do I do now, I am left not only alone, but without love or passion, it’s all been drained out of me. I need someone to listen, someone who cares, someone who can restore maybe some of the life I once had. I have not found such a person. And so I go back to my lies which I can take comfort in. But now the give me no comfort, only make me more alert to the pathetic situation im in. My disguise is cracking; the people around me have started noticing. Still none ask what’s wrong, just have a go at me for being depressed. I don’t have the energy to correct this, I used to be so careful…now I simply don’t see the point. I want to live, but I can not until someone helps. I want to help, but I cannot because I don’t have the energy. I want to die, but I don’t have the emotion. And all the time I feel sick at myself for saying these things, im not the one who wants im the one who gives. Can’t we be selfish in death? That’s what I want to know.
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Your problem seems pretty clear and it sounds like you know it, the people youve surrounded yourself with turned out to not be the same kind of friend you were to them. Think its time to start searching for those who will care for you the way you care for them. This time youll be succesful simply because like you said your not goin to be puttin on a disguise so only the people who really care about the actual you are going to stick around, and the ones that dont you dont want around anyway. And to start you off, choffelder1029@hotmail.com, anytyime for any reason
I’d love to listen to you and I care. I don’t know you but I would love to talk to you. And I can relate to you giving your all to everyone only to find out that it isn’t returned back. As for your question, if you want to view it as selfishness then yes we can be. I don’t think of it so much as being selfish but just wanting a release. But like I said, I’d love to listen to you anytime don’t hesitate to email me about anything. I won’t try to talk you out of suicide either I’m strictly here to listen I promise. Hang in there.
email: harber_a@yahoo.com
i will lesten to anything you have to say, wether you want to scream, cry or anything im here. and ps. i lie alot too, its mostly to make people leave me alone why do you do it?
angel_with_wings41@yahoo.com