You wanna know where most of the loneliness and loathsomeness lies in Websites/Forums like these, you get these hypocritical ‘Tourist’ well wishers who at bottom don’t ‘really’ give a flying fuck. but why should they? where is there to be found such help, such “love”, such courageous hero’s for the Paraplegics, Amputee’s, Veterans, Drug Addicts Homeless Child Runaways Etc on the streets and some that hold signs that say “starving”, “will work for food” why do these compassionate humans, these heroes walk past ignoring them pretending that they were not there, not apart of their society.. if the sign said instead “I Am Going To Kill Myself Today” maybe this would probably strike a nerve of compassion..(or guilt!)
If one can not! even help themselves then is it not a falsity and foolish to think that one can! help another.
At bottom, ” “Psychologically speaking if you will” it is really themselves that they are trying to help and is really just naturally selfishness believe it or not..
genuine Selflessness takes years to develop.. it took one Buddhist monk 7 years to develop the Altruistic intention up in a cave with his master..
‘Alas’ all the while it’s all Me! Me! Me! Isn’t it..
Maybe, it is so that, the Sick Human finds it easier to “Help their fellow Man /or Woman” on places such as these..   Â
not to look into another human beings dispairing eyes, to see the pain in there – not to look them face to face while doing their sincere & compassionate well meant deeds.Â
Because Maybe!, if they did do it this way,.
~ they probably really would start to care..~
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that’s because we kind of all went through similar stuff at some point in time. now we are here. i am not saying that im selfless, im smart enough to know that i am not, but when all else fails and you find yourself searching for something not found where you are, where can you easily turn? here. You are right though when it comes to noticing pain but you are wrong about those in pain because they need to see themselves before anyone else. That Buddhist monk had to cleanse “himself” before letting go. As for the Vets and homeless, they deserve a chance and I respect the vets so much as my family were militants as well as for homeless i’ve been serving and donating since age 4. not raising myself up, im just saying that you are correct but missing the balance: serve others to love self, love others to serve self, serve self to serve others, love self to love others.
Amor, Ai, Takk,
The Apache Girl
Deareset *Beautiful Barbie Princess*
If you really did care about truly destroying sufferings of the world
to make a difference if you must..
I will tell you a way with genuineity and altruism.
a way you would be able to ‘Truly’! help the world,
your fellow man people.
Than would be for you to cut your own nose off burn your face or horribly scar it and set an example.
a Martyr you will be, one that has truly suffered,
only then would you be able to possibly get peoples attention and possibly make a difference in the world.
“one who went to such lengths to dispel suffering and the sickness that pervaded the world
of ‘Glamour”!, ‘Vanity’.” Beauty external and all its perversness”
which has and STILL causes immeasurable suffering, and anguish.
(To allot of young women especially who have died due to such madness)
Beceause ‘Sacrifice’, kind and compassionate one, with Christian intentions.
is also Love!.
“In truth, there was only one Christian, and he died on the cross”
Friedrich Nietzsche (1844 – 1900)
why did you call be beautiful barbie princess? and how would scaring myself do anything? why martyr when i am not finished yet? what do you do? who are you to preach? i understand what you say however what gives you the right to scold others? you are also imperfect.
-The Apache Girl
Not many people are truelly selfless and it is a naturally himan nature to be selfish and to shun others who we consider ‘lesser’ than ourselves. Does this make it right? No, I doubt it. I am not ‘selfless’ or ‘compassionate’, I just leave messages for others, I have no idea if they will help them or not.
I will never really ‘care’ or feel empathy for other people, I am physically and emotionally unable. I can listen to others and try to help them online and in real life but really, I can’t feel anything for them. Don’t preach at me for talking to people over the internet, I would do the same for anyone in real life.
((@notinteresting1))
When you say that you do not feel anything, for people, for empathy, I assure you that this is a positive thing,
as you have no attachment, attachments are negative,
when a person talks of feeling so empty inside, this is the true nature of the mind this ( This Emptiness ) is what everyone must strive to realise for true freedom.
when they do then they can start to liberate themselves directly and others by realising this truth,
And then in turn Detach from false concepts, false emotions, delusions like anger attachment and ignorance and “feelings” which are really just illusions in that they do not exsist.
Only after realising emptiness they can develop genuine compassion and not attachment which is negative.
i respect your honesty, unfortunately the same can not be said about pretentious do-gooders which is what I was speaking about, the hypocritical people that act and think and say that they care when in truth that they really do not,
You say that you are physically and emotionally unable to feel for other people? To my understanding did you say in another message that you suffer from Autism? if so than did you look into that supplement
L-Carnosine and the link to the clinical trials that helped autism with this supplement?.i highly recommend you research it.
Greetings
“Emptiness Of Inherent Existence the nature of all phenomena†~
#Gautama Buddha.