I know i’ve posted here before and i know this is a neutral, mostly unbiased, site in regards to suicide and everything but there’s NOTHING worth killing yourself about, NOTHING.
here check out these links for starters
 Life is in your hands people. The planet needs your individual uniqueness. Just your being here is already adding to the planet’s cultural, ethnic and genetic diversity- that’s how important you are.
 Don’t throw it all away over some silly breakup or whatever.
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A lot of people aren’t wanting to kill themselves over a “silly breakup” yeah maybe theres some people, but a lot of people have it way worse. People who have been abused and molested there whole life, people who have lost there jobs and lost there familes, and people who are dealing with a death. I’m not saying people should kill themselves, but I think you need to be a little bit more understanding before you start to judge and take a walk in there shoes.
Yes, most people don’t think about suicide because of what other people have done. Although we are affected by past circumstances, the pain itself comes from deep within… Most of us have tried all kinds of ways, some over many years, to deal with this pain but end up only tired and frustrated. The thought of suicide isn’t about punishing ourselves or anyone else, but it seems as a last option to escape this pain. Yes, nothing is worth taking your life, but to live with anguish also requires a lot of strength, much more than what normal people can handle.
It’s a little more in depth than a break up….call it an existential crisis of being
and people grieve and the losses
that is one beautiful quote,
although however, this Real world can be very mean & cruel to those kind of individuals/persons who don’t want to “play according to the System/Game”.
the Powers-that-be, and sadly, many of its robotic followers who got easily brainwashed and have no soul/persona anymore, they’re all trying very hard to shut those who are *different* and ‘outliers’.
Sometimes, they don’t win, and we win.
This is usually where we can break the damn robotic mold and create a History for the whole world & future generations to see and follow as an example. ie: those ‘winning, successful’ black swan.
But there are times, when they win, and we lose the fight…we give up, when we can already SEE thorough our history & past experiences that our fight has been constantly losing out.
Not to mention, there’s often a Limit to our energy & level of fight/resistance..
In this respect, thus, I agree with what stevenj said above: “to live with anguish also sometimes require a lot of strength, much more than what normal people can handle”
The choice is often at the hand of the ‘black swan’, that ‘different’ person, that ‘outlier’.
Often, the only thing that seems so small yet very important that these black swans need is just: a LOVE, a Connection from other people who can truly UNDERSTAND and ACCEPT them as they are.
or finding those similar like-minded souls/individuals out there.
But we all know also many stories of Reality, where even this harsh, cruel Reality doesn’t seem to permit this beautiful thing to happen,…and that’s where the black swan person would become almost insane, existential crisis (like softsoul said), and even suicidal.