i feel as if im trying so hard to please everyone but just cant do it. i cant plaese anyone because im me. i may pretend to be a big ball of energy but in reality im nt im trying sooooooo hard and i get nothing at all.the strength i used to have is gone now.  the only person i seem to be good enough for is hailey and shes 3 so its not that hard to please her. i can have the best grades in the whole school but im still ganna get called stupid so whats the point in even trying anymore? i give up im emotionally drained and cant take it anymore im not enough so why keep trying?
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Maybe you are trying too hard to please everyone else. What they want might not be what you want. Take some time out and work out what YOU want, work on pleasing yourself instead
oracle thank you righ it dnt seem logical and im pretty sure im just letting my weakness and other people get to me when the only person i need to be good enough for is myself and hailey thank all of you guys for caring.oh and noom my mo and step dad and little sisiter
yoaiur righs? wh;ys try ansmore? im tireds of tyring for espis. whyu the sfuck cant she be cool wihte me?D? i wanns a make her happpy s so bac it honeslt yt heurts soemrtiems
Hi hailey,I remember you from a few months back.
Who’s calling you stupid?
Hello Hailey,
First of all, doesnt it sound logic to you that you are making yourself feeling that way because you impose on yourself things that you dont need to?
you dont have to please anybody but yourself, and you dont need the approval of anybody let alone of someone who is as cruel and ruthless as to call someone stupid. Nobody who insults like that, not to mention if it is a father or a mother deserves any consideration at all.
The thing is that because of your young age, your points of reference are the elder than you or your family, but Hailey, very few families have honorable members. I would say 99% of the kids here have unworthy parents who insult them and degrade them. But it is sounding to me that you are much more valuable, kind and smart than those who surround you.
Society lacks in values, and this has as a result that many many families should have never been formed, because they dont have what it takes. Some families are wonderful but they are very rare to see. Mine was awful too.
So, in these cases what there is is that you find truly supportive good heartened friends and then you find your wonderful husband, someone kind and nice and you have your children.
If you have a younger sister, that is a beautiful creature to care for. You are lucky than her as you are closer to independence, so give her love and you two are going to be wonderful company to each other.
Hugs
O
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