maybe that’s good thing when i go and sign the paper work and have to face the man who raped me and my first born who was told I don’t want him or love him
I was beaten very cruely and ended up in a hospital with a fractured skull 2 broken ribs, which took months to recover from.
The physical part wasn’t the worst part, I was 16 when this happened. The police and family wanted to know who did this, I lied and said I slipped and fell. No one believed me of course the injuries spoke for themselves.
I did nothing to this person to have this happen.
I often wondered what was the difference between “Rape” and my assault (other than the sexual part),………… the simularities are closer than people want to associate because if your a Man, your just supposed to accept an ass whipping just because your a man.
I was violated, my body was violated, my sense of self security was violated, my future was violated, my humanity was violated, my view of others was violated. My life has been one of fear of other men that may have harmful desires towards me, my trusts were vilolated. My self dignity was stripped from me.
The legal definition of “Rape” is force or unwanted penetrating intercourse” (roughly).
Other than the non sexual penetration, ………. I was “Raped” of all the same things a woman is raped of.
Just had to vent this, I’ve been carrying it over 30 years.
I sure I’ll get all kinds of hate filled response that the 2 aren’t the same, they are except for the sex part.
My life was ruined by this person. Some people may say stop being a *****/whimp.
I say what happenned to me happens to men and or boys everyday all over the world, and it is just as horrendous as what happens to a woman.
Untill the day arrives that humanity/civilization equates all violence from one human to another as the same crime, there will wounded men with no one to turn to, and no special interests (women) that seek to heal these injured people.
When one person beats, dominates another for any reason its equally as wrong.
Women and actual rape is unacceptable, yet the simularities are undeniable with men beating men.
I was born beautiful and it had been very hard my whole life. NOT MY FAULT. NOT what you think. While women may make the babies, and ultimately that is why they are here, no man had the right to force himself on any women, whether they ‘play’ or not. Until penetration, and even during STOP means STOP, whether the guy has blue balls or not. Any decent guy knows the difference, despite what you may do in your own private situation. You cannot equate that with rape. Thing is rape is like being pregnant. You either are or your not. I don’t buy into fuzzy lines, while men will always have strength over women.
I was molested when I was and its effected my whole life. Wow. Know you like to be the skunk at the Garden Party, but this poster suffered a trauma, and you owe them an apology. Very poor taste. Rather she is ugly, pretty, beautiful or in between.
@caucajun, I’m sorry for what happened to you and I agree, rape, violent assualt, to an extent even personal theft – what they all have in common is a violation of your personal rights. Rape is a little bit different because it can have lasting effects on how the victim comes to view sex specifically. But you’re right, violating anyone else personal rights is just not acceptable, and I’m sorry you had to go through with that, and I’m also sorry there are just not many support groups for men like you… you are expected to ‘take it like a man’. It’s stupid. But thanks for sharing, that takes guts.
@doolittle: so what are you saying? you’re girlfriend’s friends had consentual sex with you? Or you forced them?
I hope you get your child back, and can be rid of this man’s shadow. I am sorry you got raped. When I was around 14 I too got nearly raped by 2 gardeners. I ran away, but I was extremely traumatised. I cannot even begin to imagine what it must be like to get raped.
@doolittle:
Shame on you for saying such things. If you’re trolling, I hope your account get’s banned.
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And your frist born? What dose that mean.?
Ok girl’s are beauifull. (sexy hot that’s how you are made.) Some men can not stop them self’s. Good new’s most of us can.
Some girl’s play. I’m not saying there asking for it. Boot on other shoe. I got a girl friend. Two of her fiend’s tye me. My body can not help it.
I was beaten very cruely and ended up in a hospital with a fractured skull 2 broken ribs, which took months to recover from.
The physical part wasn’t the worst part, I was 16 when this happened. The police and family wanted to know who did this, I lied and said I slipped and fell. No one believed me of course the injuries spoke for themselves.
I did nothing to this person to have this happen.
I often wondered what was the difference between “Rape” and my assault (other than the sexual part),………… the simularities are closer than people want to associate because if your a Man, your just supposed to accept an ass whipping just because your a man.
I was violated, my body was violated, my sense of self security was violated, my future was violated, my humanity was violated, my view of others was violated. My life has been one of fear of other men that may have harmful desires towards me, my trusts were vilolated. My self dignity was stripped from me.
The legal definition of “Rape” is force or unwanted penetrating intercourse” (roughly).
Other than the non sexual penetration, ………. I was “Raped” of all the same things a woman is raped of.
Just had to vent this, I’ve been carrying it over 30 years.
I sure I’ll get all kinds of hate filled response that the 2 aren’t the same, they are except for the sex part.
My life was ruined by this person. Some people may say stop being a *****/whimp.
I say what happenned to me happens to men and or boys everyday all over the world, and it is just as horrendous as what happens to a woman.
Untill the day arrives that humanity/civilization equates all violence from one human to another as the same crime, there will wounded men with no one to turn to, and no special interests (women) that seek to heal these injured people.
When one person beats, dominates another for any reason its equally as wrong.
Women and actual rape is unacceptable, yet the simularities are undeniable with men beating men.
@Doolittle-ur comments disgust me.
I was born beautiful and it had been very hard my whole life. NOT MY FAULT. NOT what you think. While women may make the babies, and ultimately that is why they are here, no man had the right to force himself on any women, whether they ‘play’ or not. Until penetration, and even during STOP means STOP, whether the guy has blue balls or not. Any decent guy knows the difference, despite what you may do in your own private situation. You cannot equate that with rape. Thing is rape is like being pregnant. You either are or your not. I don’t buy into fuzzy lines, while men will always have strength over women.
I was molested when I was and its effected my whole life. Wow. Know you like to be the skunk at the Garden Party, but this poster suffered a trauma, and you owe them an apology. Very poor taste. Rather she is ugly, pretty, beautiful or in between.
@caucajun, I’m sorry for what happened to you and I agree, rape, violent assualt, to an extent even personal theft – what they all have in common is a violation of your personal rights. Rape is a little bit different because it can have lasting effects on how the victim comes to view sex specifically. But you’re right, violating anyone else personal rights is just not acceptable, and I’m sorry you had to go through with that, and I’m also sorry there are just not many support groups for men like you… you are expected to ‘take it like a man’. It’s stupid. But thanks for sharing, that takes guts.
@doolittle: so what are you saying? you’re girlfriend’s friends had consentual sex with you? Or you forced them?
@Auna:
I hope you get your child back, and can be rid of this man’s shadow. I am sorry you got raped. When I was around 14 I too got nearly raped by 2 gardeners. I ran away, but I was extremely traumatised. I cannot even begin to imagine what it must be like to get raped.
@doolittle:
Shame on you for saying such things. If you’re trolling, I hope your account get’s banned.