You get sent to be put on medication if youre depressed or attempt suicide. Sent to a hospital.
But what should stop you, if you want to die, you want to die. Its your life, its your choice.
Like what college to go to, what car to buy, any decision you make. YOU make it. I understand that no one can really stop you from doing it, but they try.
Why would they, shouldnt they just understand that you’re unhappy?
You wouldn’t wanting me telling you you should do something that makes you feel bad.
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You are right.
they just dont you to be unhappy, but some people just suck at caring.. =\
Agree
A few years ago one of my dudes’ little sisters went through with suicide … At that point I had wanted to be dead for years, since this girl was just a child starting to walk. It was very surreal to see how someone’s choice to end their life would affect their friends and family.
The thing I remember most though occurred after the third and final service was clearing out of the church, at which point just family and close friends remained. I was sitting with a group of people I went to high school with talking about how sad it was and how bad we felt for the family. Then this stupid ***** had the audacity to say, “I can’t believe that she would do this! It’s so selfish and terrible! Look what she has done to her mother!†She said this mind you within earshot of one of my best friend’s experiencing one of the deepest tragedies of his life.
What that dumb whore doesn’t understand is that people who commit suicide or think about it DO realize how much pain they cause their family and friends. On top of all the pain and suffering that they are dealing with they are also burdened by knowing that their decision will devastate these people. What is really selfish is forcing a person to continue living if it is too painful for them to simply because it would be too painful for you if they were gone. That is the definition of selfishness, thinking only about your feelings and your pain instead of considering how much pain the person who killed themselves was in.
Because it’s not just about you. It’s gonna effect all those around you – everyone who loves you; everyone who’s ever tried to help you; all the people you’ve ignored and are willing to leave behind. You’ll be killing a little part of them. They’ll suffer more than you with your easy way out. It’s not a solution; it’s a way to pass your pain onto others.
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“What that dumb whore doesn’t understand is that people who commit suicide or think about it DO realize how much pain they cause their family and friends. On top of all the pain and suffering that they are dealing with they are also burdened by knowing that their decision will devastate these people. What is really selfish is forcing a person to continue living if it is too painful for them to simply because it would be too painful for you if they were gone. That is the definition of selfishness, thinking only about your feelings and your pain instead of considering how much pain the person who killed themselves was in.”
very good words and a very good point, one side of me thinks it is wrong to keep yourself alive for others empathy, yet one should also consider whether or not the problem is worth dying over in the first place, we change & we get wiser over time and what was before would seem insignificant later,
but a sickness is that most ( society ) would not nor do they still except suicide due to spiritual suffering depression etc, but if your laying there shitting yourself and wearing diapers it is more readily expectable, i think genuine mental pain is just as if not more intense & real than physical suffering
thanks
They are really thinking about how they will feel and if you done the deed than actually why you would want to or why you done it, so if they really loved you or understood, they would respect and feel comfort that they are not suffering anymore.
Is the anger towards you while you sit in hospital after a failed attempt really out of love most of the time it is really out of their own selfishness of how they would feel if you did die? how much more saddening is that for the person who failed & realised this also. How much more alone & desolate do you feel.