I’ve been compared to my sisters, my family and my friends the entire time. I’m good at different things, but everyone seems to forget about them. I’m a failure to everyone around me. I try to “feel good about my stuff” but that is complete crap when you feel like the entire world has been against you your entire life. I don’t know how much longer I can do this.
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hey, lets talk. i think is better talk to someone who knows how is feel that. and is more easy talk to someone who you dont know.
It is impossible to stop others from comparing you.
But well within your power to not compare yourself so much.
Excel in the things you are competent at and let that be one of your guiding forces.
It is not easy to let go of habits – especially not when it is habits of thinking, but it can be learned over time.
Now I don’t know what you think you do good in and what ways other people compare you in, but sometimes it can help to broaden ones view of the world.
Actually by doing comparisons you can make anyone look like losers – and probably as winners too. Be careful about comparisons because they essentially says nothing about what is good or not.