its never really been a problem with me,but you know how some people are striaght and some people are the opposite, well im neither,i aint sexually attached to men nor women,im a female,i never got romantically close to men because it didnt feel right,i never dated girls because it didnt feel right to me,so if im not straight and im not gay or bisexual nor bicurious, then what am i?i dont know if its from all the years of being abused, i dont like any of it,i feel uncomfortable dating period,or kissing,i feel like my mouth is just to talk and eat food with,and i dont like cuddling, sleeping with anyone,im not attracted to anyone of any sex,id there a name for that like theres a name for everything els?
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Yes there are names for this,
Some people identify with being asexual, that is having no attractions, some with pan sexual, being attracted to he whole spectrum.
Society pushes sex on us, but actually you get to choose.
i couldnt be attracted to anyone,iv tried to have romantic relation ships,
I’m the same as you. I’m currently dating someone, but I am not really attracted to him. I think it’s because of the abuse I’ve had, both from my dad and myself.
And please keep in mind that depression doesn’t help.
Sometimes when we are depressed we just don’t have room to feel good feelings like attraction to others.
We become trapped behind our own Black Velvet Curtain.
i know how you feel. it’s hard for me and i don’t understand it. but just be patient, maybe someone will come along and you’ll feel it, it will feel right.