no matter where i go, i cant seem to make friends that are real, i always run into minipulaters,people that use me for money or something, wen you get to know me, im not as weird as if you were a complete stranger tryin to talk to me,its so hard to make friends,is there anyone that has the same problem?i just want someone i can relate to, and talk to, and not only about life, mabey jokeing around or laughing and being happy, or trying to,if there is,i was wondering if you would want to get to know me, and be my friend,its easyier to have a friend that understands, then one that only hurts you,
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Yeah, I feel that way too. I thinks it’s mainly down to my environment. E.g work, area i live. Most of the people I know, I’m forced to have contact with through circumstance. It’s ironic really that the only friends I have also frequent Internet forums about suicide and I have never actually met them. Yet, they know me quite well. I’m not the type of person who pries into peoples lives you know. I’m not interested in anyone and they don’t really have anything I want. But I’m the kindest nicest guy and am really cool to be around when I’m not depressed or deranged but where I am people are so self absorbed. But yeah, I don’t have any real friends.
@Duke Can I ask your age and job?
How can I be sure you are not a stalker?
Mh I guess you can’t.
I’m the same age as you and I work in a profession that utilises all of my skill and ability to feed off the misery of others.
I’m not too expert of this place, but in my brief experience it seems to me there’s a pattern of recurrent age ranges where similar problems pop up
i can relate with you as well ….going through hardships in life has made me more understanding of other people but alot of the people that I know are superficial and have some hidden agenda and are not sincere so over the years I have began to lose trust. I was never like this but I guess it keeps me from getting hurt again.
I don’t think so. You get people on here from all sorts of ages and backgrounds and I’ve made friends with some really cool people. How on earth would we ever come into contact in the real world, we are just so different. I think that if the rest of the world knew they would envy us. We give each other something that they will never have.
Me, Dawg, Amakua, Molly Whoppit, Lucy4, One_Day, Rawrimaturtle, Gaara, AtTheEnd, Tastelikecherries. How would we have ever known each other. We are unique, one of a kind and all possess gifts. We would not have known each other in a million years had it not been for this site. There are also a lot of others I havnt mentioned.
As I said I don’t know this place very well, but I’m happy to see that even a place devoted to sorrow can give birth to such strong seeds.
Hey everyone how are ya all?this site has been a godsend to me I’ve made heaps of good friends here and it has gotten me through a heap of hell what are we talkin bout tonight?it’s 10.30 pm in new Zealand…
Welcome no exception it’s hard to find genuine people but as the duke has pointed out stick around get to know us we are all here for similar reasons.I haven’t had any bad experiences with others on this page well nothing major…you will see my email address in the comments page feel free to email 🙂
im just a 21 year old female, i guess girls can be stalkers to, but im taking the chance of talking to stalkers to,im not a stalker,but i can see where your coming from,you never know in this world,but i just need friends or people to relate to, or talk to, so if it makes you feel safer, you can call me on my cell phone,if you dial 867 the number shows up blocked,if you want my number just let me know,,,,,,,,,,
i ment *67
well , this is pretty much my last sorce,i dont have anyone in my family i can talk to,they dont care, most of them use what ever you say against you to,i was placed two an a half hours away anyway because of them abusing me,so i live in a town were i dont know anyone,some times you just get despret,nomatter how many people pretended to be my friends or used me,and even wen i push people awy, i still need people to relate to,i think its just humane nature
sorry i didnt respond before elleonil ,i fell asleep soon after i wrote this and didnt wake up till ten in the morning,im 21,and dont have a job right now,but i put in alot of applications
I wasn’t talking about you noexception. Elleonil was giving me the Spanish inquisition. I know you are not a stalker. This isn’t my email. If you comment on one of my posts I will send you one.
ok,
noexception, I’m sorry for the misunderstanding