It doesn’t make u anything,it’s just a frame of mind, yes you do, and should stay alive so people can get to see and know you; if you are pretty, be happy that’s a bonus, but it’s not everything to all, some of my most interesting friends are bulldog ugly….. it;s only skin….
stay alive for humanity and pass along your beautiful genes to your children. dont let the ugly people win. being pretty is a good starting point for finding a greater reason to stay alive, or several smaller reasons to hold on. we’re all balloons and the more strings we have strapping us to the ground, the less likely we are to float away. vanity is your first string, now build on that
Haha this post me laugh! You remind me of zoo lander! And I guess bein really really good looking is as good a reason as any to stay alive.
Since you ask, what it makes you is quite shallow, narcissistic and histronic. Not judging here, just saying since you asked. Those things don’t always have to be bad things. Sometimes shallow people are really fun to be around and lighten the mood. I’m actually quite curious now about how good looking you must be…
It has its negatives that makes me wanna kill myself though…
1. Yeah I know it makes me conceited, and sometimes I hate myself so much for feeling and being the way I am. I know im a bad person, shallow and that’s why I don’t deserve to live.
2. People that make me uncomfortable, pedos looking at me, it makes me wanna kill myself. I feel dirty and disgusting and I wish they were dead. Or that ugly people and pretty people should be separated. I mean that’s why rape happens right?
3. Being the way I am puts me in the spotlight allll theee tiimmee and if one day I get the smallest flaw, it is a huge deal for me, but if I weren’t so noticed, it wouldn’t even matter. I get depressed for the stupidest things and hate myself for giving a shit about how I look.
There’s probably more but yeah…
Edit: 4. Also, pretty people are expected to be confident, loud, and exude confidence and I fucking hate that so much. I’m quiet, shy, smart, hate speeches and I have the worst posture ever. I made a mistake when I made friends, thinking that I would of fit in with the popular people, but I have nothing in common with them and they are always telling me that im too quiet and one girl even called me a snob. Cause I never initiate conversations with her, but she saw me talking to this other girl who wasn’t part of the in crowd. And now, because I chose these popular people first I don’t have any friends, I don’t feel comfortable talking to them. So I decided to try and make friends with the quiet, smart people, but I get the feeling like they think they are scraps to me, and that I am only using them and don’t really want to be with them but that’s not true.
5. People do not want to associate with me because they’re jealous. For example, there’s this one girl, who her and I have solo much in common its ridiculous, we should be best friends right? But no…. She ignores the crap out of me. What other reason is there?
I really gotta set you straight here… Rape DOES NOT hapen because ugly people and beautiful people are not seperated. it has nothing to do with beauty. It’s about ego. Rapists are arrogant people who think they have the right to take anything they want. It’s about power, control, violence. Nothing at all about beauty. Society brainwashes women that its their fault they got raped, their fault for being beautiful. That is why you feel dirty when pedos look at you, but you shouldn’t – THEY are the ones who should feel ashamed, not you.
I actually think it’s cute how honest you are about your physical beauty. I think it’s brave, and I’ll tke brave conceit over false modesty any day. You shouldn’t feel like a bad person who should die, just because you’re honest.
Boy, you really are having problems making friends and I can see why. I think truthfully, you look down on people without realising it. In your above comment, on one hand you say “I get the feeling like they think they are scraps to me, and that I am only using them and don’t really want to be with them but that’s not true.” Could it be, you’re imposing your personal view of them? Could it be that YOU really do think they are scraps… at least you see that’s how they could look to other people, including yourself?
And then the next thing you say “People do not want to associate with me because they’re jealous.” Well, this is a bit of an arrogant excuse to make for people not wanting to be friends with you.
Probably, you might be a bit of a snob. Because culture dictates that beautiful people should be snobs. You said it yourself, you think beautiful and ugly people should be seperated. Don’t get much snobbier than that. And if you ARE a snob, people pick up on it, people are not stupid, they can sense when one is being genuine or not. So I think you have to have a long think about it and be REALLY honest with yourself, and confront all these prejudices you have against non-beautiful people, because I think you have a lot, without even realising it. And work through your prejudices and try to drop them, and just try to be a nice person. That’s all people want in a friend.
The girl you have a lot in common with who ignores you… you gotta look at it from her eyes. Try to imagine what SHE wants in a friend. You are looking at it from a selfish point of view, but you gotta think what she’ll get out of the friendship.
Anyway, good luck, and keep up the honesty and bravery. They are the things I value most in people, but they are also the most lacking qualities.
Okay I agree, but its easier said than done. That’s not how it feels.
You’re right, I do think less of those people, because even though I know I don’t fit in with the loud people, I still get jealous because I know everyones staring at them, thinking they’re having the most fun.
I admit, it is sort of an excuse for the fact that i know im really closed off and almost never talks, that i constantly hate the feeling that because im quiet, i know that people are saying and thinking that im so fucking boring. I wish i could open up, i don’t know why im like this, don’t know what to do.
I actually used to be ‘too nice’ apparently… I had a friend who always said that. She and I would also agree that one of our so called friend who was ugly, was really mean lol. I was friends with them when i first started to get depressed, so either im mean and happy or depressed and nice geez.
Thanks for taking the time to honestly give me a different perspective.
It makes sense that you used to be too nice. You probably got taken advantage of, and people people walked all over you, then you had to become a complete ***** in retalliation. I do think you can find a happy medium somewhere.
Sounds like you have this really split personality where you occupy 2 extremes simeoultaneaously – you’re shy but jealous of other’s being in the spotlight. Mean, but lacking in confidence. You’re very complex and I find you quite interesting. Maybe some therapy would help? Sounds like it would be good to talk all this stuff out with someone else. Anyway, I think you can work it out. Honesty is your virtue, self-reflection is your tool.
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It doesn’t make u anything,it’s just a frame of mind, yes you do, and should stay alive so people can get to see and know you; if you are pretty, be happy that’s a bonus, but it’s not everything to all, some of my most interesting friends are bulldog ugly….. it;s only skin….
stay alive for humanity and pass along your beautiful genes to your children. dont let the ugly people win. being pretty is a good starting point for finding a greater reason to stay alive, or several smaller reasons to hold on. we’re all balloons and the more strings we have strapping us to the ground, the less likely we are to float away. vanity is your first string, now build on that
without trying to be too rude…… i think it makes u arrogant.
Not rude, that made me lol.
trolling?
Haha this post me laugh! You remind me of zoo lander! And I guess bein really really good looking is as good a reason as any to stay alive.
Since you ask, what it makes you is quite shallow, narcissistic and histronic. Not judging here, just saying since you asked. Those things don’t always have to be bad things. Sometimes shallow people are really fun to be around and lighten the mood. I’m actually quite curious now about how good looking you must be…
If your pretty,you must have something to live for?otherwise the toll of stress would make you look like sh1t after time
This makes you sound so conceited lol
It has its negatives that makes me wanna kill myself though…
1. Yeah I know it makes me conceited, and sometimes I hate myself so much for feeling and being the way I am. I know im a bad person, shallow and that’s why I don’t deserve to live.
2. People that make me uncomfortable, pedos looking at me, it makes me wanna kill myself. I feel dirty and disgusting and I wish they were dead. Or that ugly people and pretty people should be separated. I mean that’s why rape happens right?
3. Being the way I am puts me in the spotlight allll theee tiimmee and if one day I get the smallest flaw, it is a huge deal for me, but if I weren’t so noticed, it wouldn’t even matter. I get depressed for the stupidest things and hate myself for giving a shit about how I look.
There’s probably more but yeah…
Edit: 4. Also, pretty people are expected to be confident, loud, and exude confidence and I fucking hate that so much. I’m quiet, shy, smart, hate speeches and I have the worst posture ever. I made a mistake when I made friends, thinking that I would of fit in with the popular people, but I have nothing in common with them and they are always telling me that im too quiet and one girl even called me a snob. Cause I never initiate conversations with her, but she saw me talking to this other girl who wasn’t part of the in crowd. And now, because I chose these popular people first I don’t have any friends, I don’t feel comfortable talking to them. So I decided to try and make friends with the quiet, smart people, but I get the feeling like they think they are scraps to me, and that I am only using them and don’t really want to be with them but that’s not true.
5. People do not want to associate with me because they’re jealous. For example, there’s this one girl, who her and I have solo much in common its ridiculous, we should be best friends right? But no…. She ignores the crap out of me. What other reason is there?
I really gotta set you straight here… Rape DOES NOT hapen because ugly people and beautiful people are not seperated. it has nothing to do with beauty. It’s about ego. Rapists are arrogant people who think they have the right to take anything they want. It’s about power, control, violence. Nothing at all about beauty. Society brainwashes women that its their fault they got raped, their fault for being beautiful. That is why you feel dirty when pedos look at you, but you shouldn’t – THEY are the ones who should feel ashamed, not you.
I actually think it’s cute how honest you are about your physical beauty. I think it’s brave, and I’ll tke brave conceit over false modesty any day. You shouldn’t feel like a bad person who should die, just because you’re honest.
Boy, you really are having problems making friends and I can see why. I think truthfully, you look down on people without realising it. In your above comment, on one hand you say “I get the feeling like they think they are scraps to me, and that I am only using them and don’t really want to be with them but that’s not true.” Could it be, you’re imposing your personal view of them? Could it be that YOU really do think they are scraps… at least you see that’s how they could look to other people, including yourself?
And then the next thing you say “People do not want to associate with me because they’re jealous.” Well, this is a bit of an arrogant excuse to make for people not wanting to be friends with you.
Probably, you might be a bit of a snob. Because culture dictates that beautiful people should be snobs. You said it yourself, you think beautiful and ugly people should be seperated. Don’t get much snobbier than that. And if you ARE a snob, people pick up on it, people are not stupid, they can sense when one is being genuine or not. So I think you have to have a long think about it and be REALLY honest with yourself, and confront all these prejudices you have against non-beautiful people, because I think you have a lot, without even realising it. And work through your prejudices and try to drop them, and just try to be a nice person. That’s all people want in a friend.
The girl you have a lot in common with who ignores you… you gotta look at it from her eyes. Try to imagine what SHE wants in a friend. You are looking at it from a selfish point of view, but you gotta think what she’ll get out of the friendship.
Anyway, good luck, and keep up the honesty and bravery. They are the things I value most in people, but they are also the most lacking qualities.
Okay I agree, but its easier said than done. That’s not how it feels.
You’re right, I do think less of those people, because even though I know I don’t fit in with the loud people, I still get jealous because I know everyones staring at them, thinking they’re having the most fun.
I admit, it is sort of an excuse for the fact that i know im really closed off and almost never talks, that i constantly hate the feeling that because im quiet, i know that people are saying and thinking that im so fucking boring. I wish i could open up, i don’t know why im like this, don’t know what to do.
I actually used to be ‘too nice’ apparently… I had a friend who always said that. She and I would also agree that one of our so called friend who was ugly, was really mean lol. I was friends with them when i first started to get depressed, so either im mean and happy or depressed and nice geez.
Thanks for taking the time to honestly give me a different perspective.
Just how pretty are you for goodness sake? I want to see a picture of this ungodly beauty. lol 😛
It makes sense that you used to be too nice. You probably got taken advantage of, and people people walked all over you, then you had to become a complete ***** in retalliation. I do think you can find a happy medium somewhere.
Sounds like you have this really split personality where you occupy 2 extremes simeoultaneaously – you’re shy but jealous of other’s being in the spotlight. Mean, but lacking in confidence. You’re very complex and I find you quite interesting. Maybe some therapy would help? Sounds like it would be good to talk all this stuff out with someone else. Anyway, I think you can work it out. Honesty is your virtue, self-reflection is your tool.