well I just thought I would tell a story really quick. about three moths ago. there was this guy. he was new to my school and he was hot!! we imeadiatly became really good friends… then he told me he liked me. of course I liked him back he was practically my dream guy. then he started to take interest in my best friend. well one day we went over to his house it was me too of my best friend him and his friend. his friend and one of mine hit it off right way so that was no problem. then he tried to hit on my other friend. this pissed me off to no end. after she rejected him the first couple of times we had all gotten pretty drunk he then took me to his room. I told him that what we were doing was wrong and that he liked my friend then I quote “no your wrong I like you hell I’ve fallen in love with you” she then walked in on us and shortly after stormed out of his house. after she left he started to laugh then he said in a totally serious voice “now get out of my house you whore” I thought he was joking at first until he punched me and screamed in my face. then I had to walk 6miles home because my friend had thrown my bike off a bridge. the next day his parents called mine he had blamed all the empty beer bottles on me.
this guy went from my best friend to my crush to the person who helped increase my depression but I can’t help think that this is all my fault. Is it?
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some ppl say we bring things upon ourselves, but i fail to see the logic in this. we do not have control of the ppl around us or the events that have or are taking place
It’s not your fault. Don’t blame it on yourself. You had no idea he didn’t mean what he said, and you weren’t trying to hurt your friend. You even told him your thought it was wrong. All of that points to the fact that you aren’t to blame