I’m don’t understand how sometimes she’s so responsive and other times she blows me off completely for days on days… Why can’t she just treat me at least decently most of the time? I hate feeling so dismissed and uncared for.
For all the times i’ve been there for her, I think I deserve her to be there for me.But she’s never there. Even when I reach out she doesn’t even care enough to give me the same kind of dedication.
I know she cares, I know deep down she’s a good person and a good friend. i just wish she could learn to value our friendship so I wouldn’t feel this way all the time.
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I understand exactly what you mean, but have you thought you might be expecting her to be as you are?
Seems like you like her more than she likes you, and it’s becoming an unbalanced relationship.
You can’t change people, even if you need her so much and are so good to her, she has her life, and probably feels uncomfortable with your constant need for atention and care, even if it’s all good intentions.
I’ve been in a case like this recently, and ended up ruining another friendship because i have too much free time to be good to her and i care too much.
Are you doing the same wrong thinking i did? Think about it. 🙂