well, i was at at party the other night (and when i say party, think about a group of people watching movies and eating ice cream, not everybody getting trashed and wrecking a house). well anyway, it was at a friends house who i have known since i was 6, so eight years. she invited a few guys over. one of which she was hoping was going to be her boyfriend.
so we were sitting on the couch and i was sitting near the end. one of the guys came and sat next to me, and then so did my friend and her ‘bf’. my friend told everyone to move over and the guy sitting next to me said there’s no room.
my friend said then cuddle charlotte. i wasnt comfortable with it but i didnt want to be a prude, and it wasnt a big deal so i let him. we started watching a movie and someone tapped me on the shoulder. i turned my head and the next thing i knew, this guy was shoving his tongue down my throat. i couldnt do anything about it and then i noticed everybody staring at us.
this was my first kiss.
to make it worse, this guy is 17. im 14. to make it even worse, there were about 20 other people at that party. imagine how fast gossip that ‘charlotte the prude hooked up with a 17 year old’. ive been called a slut or a whore so many times, just since the other night. im forever going to remember my first kiss was a guy three (almost four) years older than me kissing me. as soon as i got home, i didnt stop crying for hours.
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If only you knew how many options you had other than accepting it
what else can i do?
Off my head? Create another spectacle with the opposite effect, aggressively resist any advances, or insert gossip of others to take spotlight off yourself
the first one sounds good. i will try and find some gossip about someone else, but i dont want to spread anything hurtful about someone else. ive also blocked him on fb, and lacklisted his number. i just want to get him out of my head.
I am a dude..but say if I place myself in your shoe, I think something about kicking his groin with your knee when he tried to kiss you…is about the most fulfilling thing you could do, so that no body..I mean no body should dare to mess with you. 🙂
hahaha will do if he tries it again
If anyone knows about being falsly called a slut at school it’s me- I had a guy ruin my whole sophmore year by spreading bullshit rumors and stupid jokes(not an exaggeration, I go to a small school with like 80kids in the whole highschool, soo my reputation has been ducked ever since)- it scarred me to the point where I’d refuse to go to fresh and easy with my mom or watch another 16 and pregnant.. And this was all cuz I dumped him for not taking no for an answer when ever he wanted to have sex. I wasn’t comfortable with it and he was 18 and I was 15.
Bottom line: teenagers will call u a slut for just about any reason and there’s no way for you change that. Bestthing is to keep ur head up, at least LOOK confident, and if someone confronts u about it, explain the truth or what happened and for everyone else? Who gives a flying ratsass? They’re cowards for talkig behind ur back about it.
*fucked
Not ducked
im sorry about what happened, and i will remember what you’ve said. thank you for the good advice and tbh you’re right. they are cowards
Glad I could help, girl. Keep us posted- love to see how it all plays out for you.