I want to know how many of you agree

1. After a while of trying and failing, you start wondering if the problem is your own self.

Yes – in a way it usually is – but not as a physical or mental defect in most cases but in a perception/perspective way – we have a habit of elevating the actions and words of others and then we obsess over them in a negative way – in other words the more we worry about pleasing others and acting in the manner they prefer, the worse off we make ourselves … take care of yourself first – what other people think is THEIR problem, not yours (this does not mean to treat people like crap because you reap what you sew)

2. The God of this human world is money.

There is no god/gods/deities – but yes – people are greedy and some will sell their children for a nickle – but money is required for commerce so be realistic where it is concerned and don’t trust people who’s goal is to die on the tallest stack of cash

3. Humans are all trash. They say good things, say they love and care, but then they lie, they scheme, they betray, they backstab. Humans try to blame it on the evil but THEY are the evils. Honestly I think saving a baby kitten’s life is much worthy than saving a baby human.

I disagree with the “trash” comment – but yes – people will tend to look out for their own self interests first – and those change almost daily – it is of utmost importance for us to look after our own self interest first while trying to identify and cultivate friends and relationships with people who have PROVEN themselves worthy of our trust and respect – any stranger we meet deserves the most basic trust and respect and relative kindness – but not at our peril – example – i’ll loan a stranger $1 … maybe even 10 … but not more … not until they PROVE trustworthy – same goes with love and kindness … be civil but don’t expose your vulnerabilities … I can smile and be friendly to a stranger – these have no cost to me and do not hurt me to extend these courtesies – but still be ready to rip their throat out should they become a threat

4. This world is not fair.

It is not fair – this is true – we must try to learn and prepare to expect the unexpected

5. No one will help.

This is both true and untrue – figuratively one should never expect anyone to help – i find the more i just forge ahead on my own and do a thing that people WILL step up without me asking … if they don’t, them it’s of no consequence because i didn’t expect it in the first place so no harm no foul

6. Promises are bullcrap.

Depends on the honor of the promiser and the promise – no one can “promise you the moon and stars” and make good on that promise … be realistic

7. One cannot even rely on family.

See 5 and 6 above – depends on the family and their honor – they are no different despite what we might hope or expect … save yourself the heartache and go on the assumption they will NOT help in any way … you might be surprised when they realize you WILL succeed because you attacked a problem without their help and support that they will suddenly change their minds and help (after you’ve done the lion’s share of the work) so they can say they were “behind you all the way” … yes, it’s self serving on their part – but i’ll take it knowing the truth – just don’t let them steal all the credit

8. Animals are more loyal than humans.

True and false- but generally true for these purposes – domesticated animals know they need us and they are hard wired to follow us when they have accepted us as their leaders … but we still have to earn their respect with kindness, compassion as well as strength and decisiveness that serves their interests.

I hope this helps put some things into perspective

2 cents dawg