So, I started working at KingSoopers recently, and it’s not bad. Then I learned that my friend got hired there. He was flirting with me, and I him. But he doesn’t know that I cut. He doesn’t know that I have to everyday before work. He doesn’t know that I was suicidal, or that I still am. I suck at dating, no relationship has ever worked out, the guy always becomes an ass. But, I like him. Do I tell him that I like him? Do I tell him about the cuts? Should I just shut up and bag my groceries and get the job done?
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Dating may suck, but due to no fault of yours (“the guy always becomes an ass”) and flirting is fine. Just have a think as to whether or not you can spare the emotional fortitude to engage in such an endeavour.
SH, as we’re both aware, causes some… “concern” shall we say amongst most other people, so if and when you decide to step things up a bit with your friend it may be prudent to disclose this sooner rather than later, so as to gauge initial reaction and see if things can work from there. This is ENTIRELY dependant on whether YOU feel you can disclose this to him.
Best of luck with your job, and your friend of course.
you are who you are. do not worry about it. If he accepts you as you are – then you have a chance. If he does not – then he is not who you want.
btw – cutters are HOT (and yes, I cut too).
I say no….don’t tell him about anything personal until you can trust him….and even then you should take precaution…. you can tell him you like him…nothing wrong with that but that doesn’t mean you should just tell him personal things….give it time….if you tell him too early….well….he could use it against you or tell others at the job site then suddenly you find yourself getting odd looks from coworkers….what if you tell him and then you stop being friends for some reason? do you still think he will feel obligated to hold your secrets? what if you do start dating and something causes a bad break up? what do you think will happen then?…. I just think its better to be safe than sorry