some people describe pain as physical when youve just ran a marthon and your legs are hurting but everyone has emotional but some more the ones that are mean cause us cutters to cut even more, no they dont force you to cut your self but the feel of cutting when someone says horrible things to you is when you feel you must cut its them who bring cutters to life not just the person but the words they speak some may be true but most the time its fake they just want to see some other person upset and in pain. it dont matter if your weak or strong but it matters that you stay alive ..
this is one of my quotes because people tell me mean and hurtful words and thats a thing that makes me cut and when your family do it, it hurts even more
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It is my opinion that if you cut because of some one else you are just feeling sorry for yourself, trying to “get back” at the person or persons involved. It is a cry to say.. “See? Look what you made me do! Damn you! Look at me!” With no other avenues to release their frustration.
When a person feels a certain amount of “pressure” it is important to release the pressure. We do this through physical activity and social communication, such as this. When a person cuts but does not blame anyone, they are releasing this pressure with the intension of gaining control just the same, but includes no element of blame for an outside source. It’s human nature to try and gain control, and to know we are human. We need that sense of validation when we find it no where else. So we find it in our physical pain. It’s the one thing you can count on in life.. Pain!
😉 enjoy!
No one can really make you cut, but there is an argument that they can drive you to it. I try not to blame others for what I’ve done.
cutting is a way of coping for me, so yeah people and events can defiantly trigger feelings, with the end result of me cutting. I dont blame them though. Its totally my fault if I decide I can’t go without cutting.
You can trash my comment if it really offends you that much (no idea why).
I’d rather not see it hanging in moderation.