It’s been nearly 6 months since he left me.
I don’t understand why it still hurts so much. Why I miss him so much, no matter what I do to promote me moving on. It just hurts more and more. He’ll never know how much I really loved him. How much he meant to me. And he complains about being single even now. He won’t even spare me a passing glance. He doesn’t even notice me anymore…I’m invisible.
What do I do…
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Move on. There is nothing you can do if another person no longer wants to be involved with you…all you can do is let your wound heal and try to get back in the game….Go out with some friends, talk to new men, go get your hair done, engage in activities that will keep him off your brain, go on dates do something….Love hurts…but one sided love hurts even worse…. if he complains about being single but doesn’t want to be with you then that should tell you something….it is detrimental to you to love someone who clearly doesn’t share the same feeling…
I’ve already tried to let it heal…it doesn’t work…
I know this is cliche and believe me I hate them but you need to give it more time and devote yourself to healing…don’t just let it heal itself get out there and talk to folk…meet new people do something buy a new dress go shopping….a would heals faster if you help it to heal
Buying a new dress wouldn’t work. I’m a guy. .-.
Hahaha. Then buy candy or food. Everybody loves that 🙂
Oh okay I just assumed you were a girl by the name…..but I mean purchase something to your liking…a new T’V …some new video games…something you like
Buy a new tuxedo then! 🙂 Put on a bowtie and step out, James Bond style.
It’s normal to feel pain after a breakup. Don’t worry, your life isn’t over. You’ll meet other guys. Don’t put all your stock in ‘one’ person. When you’re with someone, enjoy your time, devote yourself to them – but if this romance doesn’t last a lifetime, it’s not your fault. Yes, some couples have stayed together fifty years until the day they die. This is because 1) They were very compatible; 2) They both worked at their relationship. It was a 50-50 effort from both parties. If each person is not giving enough to satisfy the other and meeting in the middle, the relationship is not going to work out. You need emotional and physical chemistry as well as a strong bond that develops over time, yes, but long-term relationships work because each party has to be as interested.
Perhaps you can find this with someone. Just realize that there is no such thing as ‘true love’ unless both halves of a couple are WILLING to make it so.