I dont know maybe life does get easyer, but right now its getting harder for me to live.. im not the best but I at least try to be there for everyone… people expect alot from me but HELLO im only a 15 year old girl… im just one person they cant expect me to do everything at once..ONE DAY I WILL CHANGE WHATS IN FRONT OF ME…
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Life will have its ups and downs.
I cannot say if it will get harder or easier, it is never really certain. You can manipulate many factors to give yourself a better chance at life being better thats for sure. But understand hardships come with life and yes they are bad, but not entirely. They teach us new lessons with each hardship and we learn to grow and become more dynamic with each one. It also teaches us to savor and be grateful for the good times that bestow us.
Thats wonderful your selfless and caring. Its a wonderful characteristic to posess and is very admirable. But never forget to help yourself. Take care of your well being so your in a much stable position to help another.
People will always expect much more from people then what they can truly handle. Set boundaries and let these people know your limits and capabilities.
Hope I helped.
Take care.
When you say ‘they’ are you referring to your parents? friends? community?
I learned very recently to set my own [realistic] expectations for myself and not worry about what other people think. Worrying about what other people thought of me put me in a worse predicament than I already was. The only problem with setting expectations was I had low self-esteem, so often times I didn’t think BIG enough or high enough and settled for less.
Another thing, it’s okay to be compassionate and be there for people, but I had to learn the HARD way. You have got to learn to set boundaries with people. It’s okay to say, “I’m sorry to hear that. I hope you feel better” (or whatever is going on)
I used to break my back to be “there” for people and constantly got my feelings hurt. That’s the difference between compassion and sympathy.
Have you heard part of the scripture “my cup runneth over”? Whatever is running is for you to share with others, but what’s in the cup is all yours and what you need. Don’t let people drink out of your cup when you have nothing of your own to drink.
I have no parents, I only have fake friends… im talking about my teachers they except me to be someone im not
@the koji thanks it did help alittle
People underestimate the power of energy. If you have fake friends, then you should definitely be aware of how they may be contributing to this rough patch in your life.
Sometimes it’s necessary to cut off or cut-back on certain sources of energy (people, places, things).
The problem may not even be you at all.
^this
I’m usually like a duck swimming through muddy water when I’m around what some might call negative people – I just don’t get very wet. Maybe I have a natural resistance to energy. The battery on my cell phone has been dissipating much more rapidly lately than it has in the past. Maybe it’s being affected in my stead.
Maybe but I dont know