“Confidence is 10% hard work, and 90% delusion, just thinking foolishly that you will be able to do what you want”
I was fed such fallacious bullshit. Â Fetch that medicine, but I’m done ingesting it like a puppet, kay?
What I aim to disclose, is all this ‘you can get anywhere with confidence’ is going to make me narcoleptic in due time. I’m pretty jaded already. Â What I perceived is, whether my effort is made with or without morale; it ultimately ends up the same. Â Abominable or indifferent. Â It’s just so invariable. Â A situation where effort is put forth with or without confidence is so analogous to each other. Â Self-confidence doesn’t regulate anything as far as how hard I try goes.
Why feel satisfactory about myself when I fail to detect anything of meaningful virtue?  No, this has nothing to do with introversion.  Whenever I give off an aura of [high] self-esteem, it’s only a signal for others to come and mangle and rupture me  again.  It is a notorious fact of life.
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StruggleOn, the end is always the same?
confidence is all about improving how other people perceive you, and reaping the benefits thereof.
Just be yourself. If people don’t like it or down you for it……ya don’t need em in your life.
Those who matter won’t mind and those who mind won’t matter
I know many that are confident even though peers have negative reviews about them. With that said I know others that have an entourage following them, believing in the abilities that the individual has, but yet the individual is timid and insecure about the life they are in.
clevername,
In all respects, I can not say I effectively comprehend what you are trying to assert. I guess you mean confidence will have people opening their eyes more to you? Because it’s a sign that you know who you are, and are compatible with your capabilities? 😕 I just mean self-confidence, I suppose. But if I put all my effort into something but don’t exactly believe or expect for something to come out of it, and if I put the same amount of effort into it with confidence, it doesn’t change any factors. The outcome always seems to turn out the same. . . I don’t know.
sweetmeditation,
Yeah, that’s what I’m basing my social interactions [or what’s left of them] off these days, thanks 🙂
OnlyLOVEisReal,
To your first reply, yeah, it always does [end up the same, in the end]. Always.
Well at least you are consistent at finding out what doesn’t bring you joy in life. All this is not in vain. It is just a difficult learning curve.