No one should be called that. If he makes you uncomfortable you should take some time off him. Be with friends and family, I’m sure they are better company. How about that? Sounds good?
No, leave him so your life can improve, because it sounds like he wants to drag you down to his level (from the very small window you’ve shared into your life here). Sometimes people fight tooth-and-nail to stay in a relationship for that very reason – because they like feeling important, even if it’s in a sort of brain-damaged way.
Xanax (see what I did there?) hit the nail on the head, but remember it isn’t going to be easy to relieve yourself of what seems to be codependency(?).. And Kuzco is right, we’re here for you. You’ll never be a pain the ass to me on the interwebs, cross my heart.
Big hugs, Alesana. What a beautiful name, by the way, kudos to your parents.
You can either choose to leave him and continue your life from thereon or stick with him and endure possible heartache and pain for the duration of your relationship. Depends on whether the good outweighs the bad. People here seem smart though and could help you figure it out before you make a permanent decision.
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No one should be called that. If he makes you uncomfortable you should take some time off him. Be with friends and family, I’m sure they are better company. How about that? Sounds good?
I don’t have friends… and I hate my family…
No, leave him so your life can improve, because it sounds like he wants to drag you down to his level (from the very small window you’ve shared into your life here). Sometimes people fight tooth-and-nail to stay in a relationship for that very reason – because they like feeling important, even if it’s in a sort of brain-damaged way.
Ditto Mr. Xanadu. Plus you’ve got friends right here on this page – people who want a smile on your face =)
Xanax (see what I did there?) hit the nail on the head, but remember it isn’t going to be easy to relieve yourself of what seems to be codependency(?).. And Kuzco is right, we’re here for you. You’ll never be a pain the ass to me on the interwebs, cross my heart.
Big hugs, Alesana. What a beautiful name, by the way, kudos to your parents.
You can either choose to leave him and continue your life from thereon or stick with him and endure possible heartache and pain for the duration of your relationship. Depends on whether the good outweighs the bad. People here seem smart though and could help you figure it out before you make a permanent decision.