I often wonder if listening to depressing music is good for me by giving me something to hold on to or just serves to increase my sadness. I remember, even as a teenager, preferring that kind of music to the more upbeat and cheerful tunes, I listened to both but the darker lyrics seem to speak to me much more than any other. I remember a tune that really got to me back then, the lyrics about loneliness and isolation touched me and hearing it twenty five years later, they still do. I’ll continue to listen even if it has, perhaps in a small way, contributed to who I am and what I’ve become.
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It’s probably a bad thing, but I do it too anyways. I guess its like the songs capture bits and pieces of my pain. Like it can almost describe the hurt I’m feeling inside. I listen to staind a lot and most of their songs are a little depressing.
About a year ago I started listening to a lot of relaxing music which I now do a lot, there’s a radio station called ‘chill’ I use too; when I’m using SP I listen to some relaxing music I found on youtube that lasts for hours. I suppose it’s about getting the balance right, depressing music helps me to relate to things in my life, up-beat music when doing thing like driving or cleaning etc., and relaxing music to chill out to with a glass of wine.
people indulge in pain to forget about their old pain by smothering it, self harm/masochism 101
pain/sadness..