Listen if you’re still in school, it’s fair to say you’re going to have your fair share of heart ache and heart breaks. Your boyfriend or girlfriend who left you is not worth your life though. Just trust me. You’re young and will probably have several loves when you’re a teenager or young adult. It’s just part of being young, innocent and maybe a touch immature. And I don’t mean that in a bad way. The break up will feel like the worst thing you’ve ever felt before. You’ll feel like there will never be another person who you will love, or who will love you like that again. Sadly that’s the farthest thing from the truth. And I’m not down playing the pain you feel. It hurts like hell to lose someone close to you. You’re not going to get that person back by killing yourself. They’re not worth your life. Cease all communication (if possible) and give yourself 6 months. I promise after 6 months you will see things differently. Just trust me on that one. When you’re young and innocent you let everyone in your heart, but as you grow and mature you still let people in, but you’re more guarded and ensure the person you’re letting in, doesn’t want to hurt you.
[Edited – please, don’t post hateful things on our website. -Eds.]
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5 seconds of stendarr, you didn’t have to be so mean in your response 🙁
But, I agree though. This post was mean and unnecessary. It’s also a huge stereotype. There is no place for stereotypes, and you should really have looked into this website before posting because it says that.
‘Suicide is not chosen; it happens
when pain exceeds
resources for coping with pain.’
It’s linked in the description of this website.
Please, try to be kinder in your words, as particularly the last part was not needed.
Males may not be as affected by this coarseness as you might think, ladies.
The worlds a sweeter place when we say sweeter things.
Sweets aren’t good for you.
#SinisterReplyTuesday
I wasn’t talking about sweets in the materialistic form.
*pats back* Good for you. 😛 I sometimes wish I could be as blunt in honesty.
Whilst, I agree… that’s a terribly harsh way of putting it :'(
You’re also naming all of society. Because, the police, parents, court, all of them do that.
If i act superior, do i deserve to be treated like a superior?
oooOOoooooh!
😉
lol, i was just making a point… about how… bah, i can’t even articulate it right now.
I always have to double check myself when i make statements like the one you made, which i contrasted by flipping it to serve a contrary purpose. I tend to think such statements have to be true both ways, or they’re likely invalid, if that makes sense. I wanted to demonstrate the… necessity? of that type of… internal check.
I agree with your statement though, fundamentally. The only problem is that sometimes people are perceived as “assholes,” by people who have arrived at such a conclusion based on fallacious or inappropriate criteria.
So, sometimes, it’s not that “the person is being an asshole,” but that someone is perceiving/defining them as such, even though the “asshole” may not be actively engaging in asshole behavior. Sometimes people who aren’t assholes, get treated like they are, when they don’t really deserve that treatment. And this works the opposite way as well: some people are treated as superiors, though they don’t deserve to be (e.g. “honorable” judges, who apparently don’t even understand what “honor” and “justice” mean).
I definitely need to refine my expression of that idea.
What a bunch of self righteous hypocrites. Well I’m glad you guys enjoy reading ”I’m going to kill myself over my bf/gf I dated for two weeks”. By all means, don’t let me stop you.
to be fair, i usually skip those as soon as i realize that’s what’s going on.
I don’t always have something to say to everyone.
“There there…” doesn’t seem like it would be helpful.