Why is it when people are happy
there are people who are sad?
why is there opposite happy and sad?
Why are there evil in the world?
Why cant i change?
why cant i be
why cant i be
why cant i be…
straight
why do i have to be bi?
why cant i change?
i cant survive… Im nog strong enough
im chrishton
A bisexual chrishton
well please help
please
please…..
-brian
p.s im 13 year old boy
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hey dont worry brian, being bi is a gift, you can love whichever gender you fancy, im gay and im stuck loving boys only but youve got the choice, still, at least with boys there is less feelings and emotional stuff and more physical 😛
What kind of choice??
Well, what do you believe to be true in your heart? Do you believe that you will go to a certain “hell” because you are Christian? Do your Christian values get in the way with these feelings of sexuality?
PS- you really should be waiting a bit longer to explore these feelings physically btw IMO
I am certain im bi i known my whole life
That’s not what I asked at all… I was asking about your Christian beliefs otherwise why make a big deal… And I was saying about waiting cuz you are too young to be having sex. Period.
Just my opinion
Hey Brian, bisexual just means you’re open to all possibilities. There’s nothing wrong with that. And remember, a lot of people will tell you what “God” says, but the truth is your spiritual connection is entirely your own. If you were made a certain way and if it feels natural to you, that’s all the proof you need.
As for happiness vs sadness, good vs evil, I don’t know why things can’t be all one. It would make everything so much easier. Some people think the universe is in a chaotic state and eventually it’ll settle down. Like maybe this is just the panic after a big explosion and eventually things will even out. It’ll take a kajillion years but it’s something to hope for, if that makes any difference…
The thing is i dont want to be bi. It. Sickins me
Kid… You need to relax! You don’t make sense at all. If it sickens you then… Never fucking mind.. Whatever
You are too young to even know what you are yet (sorry if that comes off as ageist, but…) and I’m sorry you have been indoctrinated into thinking being ‘bi’ is something terrible, and doesn’t conform to Christian values. You should concentrate on other things now.
Hey Brian,
Well for one I’m bi. The punishment for bisexuality in my family- capital punishment. So better then anyone I know how you feel.
Just because you’re bisexual doesn’t mean you have to be with a guy. It doesn’t mean you’d leap onto every guy in the world either. If you choose to act upon those feelings then that’s your own choice… God with all his benevolence will not punish you for thoughts only actions. And If you’re bisexual you still will like girls.
Lastly when you’re in your teenage years, you do get hormone imbalance…for years when I was you age I thought I was a lesbian…that did change. I urge you to wait until you’re 16 at least. And if you’re still bisexual- accept yourself as one. Attraction is uncontrollable, but its your choice whether or not to act upon that. And your refusal to act upon your impulses is what God would be watching.
Just learn to live and love life. There’s nothing a straight person can do that a bisexual can’t.
Whatever you are, it is not you sexuality.. Do you know what I mean? You are so many other things first – Human, alive, creative, young, smart, kind, gentle and wise beyond your years 🙂 Then, your sexuality is just that, like – look at how big an area your sexual organs take up on your body – it is only a part of a whole, and no matter how big – it’s still below and smaller than both mind and heart. Identity is a flexible thing, so make your self bigger than your sexual orientation 🙂 <it really doesn't matter much which gender you prefer, but who you want to be. I wish you much jooy !