I think my friend just found out that i liked men but he is homophobic and he was my frien since 3ed grade im in 8th grade now fuck im going to suicide now everything is ruin hes a snitch i fucking dont care if i go to hell anymore im done byee untill i see a good reason to live
than bye
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It’s a sad thing having to hide your sexuality when there’s nothing wrong with you but with those who can’t get past the fact that we’ve move on from stupid bigotry. You have every reason to live, the same as everyone else on this planet and it would be a vile thing if you were driven to commit suicide by narrow minded people. This sort of thing belongs in the past, it was wrong then, it’s wrong now. Someone I’ve admired, Alan Turing, code breaker during the second world war and a man who helped lay the foundations of computing, something we all take for granted now, he was pushed beyond his limits and to probable suicide because of the intolerance to his sexuality in the fifties, we’ve moved so far since then, people should be able to live the way they want. I’m sorry you are going through his sort of thing, I hope as you get older you will find people will be more accepting, I really hope so, it’s a completely normal thing to be as you are, remember that.
I don’t know how it is to be in your situation but I guess it’s hard.. all what matters though is what makes you happy and being who you are. Screw what others think as long as you’re settled with yourself. You think it sucks that your long friend found out about you being who you are? So what, I have friends that shocked me when they said some heterosexual stuff but they didn’t care about being all out like that because they could care less about what others may think, what matters more is their perception of themselves. My advice to you is to be happy with who you are and let no one make you think different about yourself as long as you’re self settled. I know I’m most comfortable when I’m all out being myself, that’s what others should love you for not for pretending. Your friend should still like you for the person you are anyway that he would surely overlook your personal interests.
Lots of young men are homophobic. He’ll outgrow it. He’ll outgrow it with your help because you’ll be the person who makes it personal to him.
If your friend is unable to reconcile his views and your friendship is lost it won’t be the end of the world, although it will likely feel that way for awhile. If your friend can’t accept you’re the same person now as you were before he knew he’ll be losing a friend too and you’ll find new friends who accept you for who you are.
He wont care if he loses a friend he knows mostly everyone….losing 1 won’t bother him
I think the actual problem not that he found out but that you made him perceive you differently due to not being honest with yourself because generally when you’re being yourself some sides of you are unintentionally shown so if he was shocked to know now that side of you that means that you were obviously pretending to be something you’re not. Sorry if I’m not actually helping. It’s just important to realize what the problem really is.
The reason i never told anyone is that i no all of them will not like me. Since 3ed grade i new he hated i tell u he HATED GAYS but to tell you the truth im not gay im bisexual…. I like woman better but thats nothing to him….. I live in a small town where everyone knows everyone … But i dont know everyone.. But he dose…. I never ask to be like this and it discust me to think about it … I no y im like this… When i was with a babesitter she had a son in 6th grade and i was 4… He madr me touch his d*** and he always molest me everytime i go there…. I just dont no
You must like him a lot, as a friend. You know.. just saying, in order for life to go on you have to let go of some of the things. You can’t and you shouldn’t act in a certain way for people to like you, it will only hurt you later. You have to be yourself no matter what, not saying you should tell out your secrets, but act in the way you are, because guess what? If you don’t at any time in your life for just a short time you’ll feel even more upset about things. You can’t get your friend to like you again if he already doesn’t because of how you are. But I say give it a last try, if he doesn’t like you as much as before don’t speak to him about it but just remind him in any way possible that he’s been your friend for that long that you really appreciate him being your friend to see if he’ll care more about your long friendship or your sexuality. If he still acts the way he is with you then you really really need to not talk to him anymore, he doesn’t deserve your friendship. I know it’s hard to be in such position but you know how to sort this out? Simply just embrace yourself for who you are because sexuality isn’t the most important thing, it’s your personality traits, your playfulness, your sense of humor, everything about you in general, then search as best as you can for other people to befriend who will like your personality over anything else, if you can’t find them outside or at school you can find them online, you won’t believe the many friends you could get just meeting online preferably while playing online games like LoL or whatever else since you’re at such age but they must be local people, don’t befriending someone far away so that you can meet with them later and do whatever together. It’s really the best solution for your problem, just once you get better friends that you feel so alive with you”ll automatically forget about other people who are not your friends anymore.
I understand what your going through. I’m bisexual too but to scared to tell anyone. And if your “friend” despises u because your bisexual then he’s no friend to u and u shouldn’t west your time on him.