Whenever I talk about suicide with my family or friends, they always say the same things: it’s wrong, it’s selfish, it’s just NOT GOOD. And yeah, I get the part that by doing it, you’d hurt those that love you. But the thing is, when I think about suicide, I think about how the people around me would be better off in some way and how I’d spare them and the people that I might cross paths with in the future. I don’t want to hurt anyone. I don’t want to be a bad person. And that’s one of the reasons why I want to die. I’m scared that if I live longer, I’d just hurt more people and cause all sorts of negative effects. Sometimes my anger gets the better of me and I end up saying something I shouldn’t have or doing something mean and hurtful. Not even just when I’m angry. Sometimes I get influenced by others and then I’ll find myself teasing people without any thought about how it might affect them (yes, I see even teasing as bad if it’s mean. You’ll never know how much it would hurt.) I just can’t live with myself knowing that I’ve caused someone distress. I don’t want that. But now I’m too broken and weak to shield them from me sometimes. I know that’s not an excuse; everybody has to carry their own weight. But that’s the thing. I have no more strength to carry mine and it’s unfair that others have to suffer the consequence, too.
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I know what you’re saying. This world is a really painful place and it pisses me off to the point that I would press the nuke button in a heartbeat. Then I realize that most people, most animals, most living creatures are happy with life on earth the way it is. So I guess I’m the problem. Rather than nuking the world, I should just nuke myself.
Suicide is just that. So I agree, quite often it is NOT selfish. Quite often we are doing the world a great service by ridding it of ourselves… we the people who hate it so much.
that was a very nice way of putting it, salt.
Wow. Didn’t know someone wanted to nuke the world like I do, too. The difference is that even though what you said is true- that a lot of them are genuinely happy with life- I’d still like the world to end, just so people who exist now and those that will exist in the future could be spared from suffering. Innocence or kindness doesn’t do you any good when fate decides that you need a little soul-crushing experience. Not to mention the animals, too. There are too many wicked people around for anyone and anything to be safe. I just don’t feel like whatever purpose there is behind our existence is worth all the suffering…
That is so true. Almost every day (when I’m sober) I think of my best moments in life, and I always wish I had died right then. What a perfect existence it would’ve been. Funny, so I guess everyone & everything deserves to die. The good/happy ones deserve to end on a high note while the bad/tormented ones deserve to be let go. Race ya to the nuke button…
i dont wanna die!! i just wanna get a new brain n get healed up…. fuck!! its so fuckin frustrating in this place of limbo goddammit