Is it worth it to be sad for loving someone who doesn’t love you back?
Is it worth it to hear all about how much she loves that guy, when in reality all you want is for her to love you?
Is it worth it to hear every single day about that guy that she loves so much, just to not lose her friendship?
Is it worth it to be everyday, every hour, at her side, faking to be okay, when in reality you’re in pain?
Is it worth it to keep the fact that I love her so much as a secret so that it does not reach her ears?
Is it worth it anymore…?
She’s the reason I’m happy, but also she’s the reason I’m in pain.
I can’t be with her, but it would be worse to be without her.
But she must never know…
Song name: Holding On
Artist: Scary Kids Scaring Kids
Don’t you love it when a song practically describes what you feel? I do… I feel music is the only thing that understands, without me having to say anything.
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As much as it hurts, you must let her go. Do not be used. Allow yourself to live and be free. You will find love again in time. Be the person that i cannot be, for I too have a love that I can never get over or let go. Best of luck on your journey my friend.
Don’t let her go. If you can be useful and make a difference in someones life, dont cause them pain by leaving abruptly. Stay with them, and be a sturdy friend no matter what your feelings are. Feelings are treacherous things. One should live with honor, and be reliable and kind, instead of being at the whim of ones own desires.
You should probably listen to Diem. I speak from a broken heart and a shattered soul and my advice is likely inaccurate.
There is no life without hurt and risk, if you do not take risks or experience the consequences of them you are not truly living. Life is worth the gamble and losses because you learn from each adversity. Being sad for loving someone who doesn’t love you back teaches you what characteristics you admire in a person that will help you find someone else who may actually love you back. Them not loving you may serve as a lesson of what you can improve upon yourself that would make you more desirable – perhaps you’re too pessimistic or shy or other things, you can always improve yourself. There are many people in the world, although I understand all love is different and you may not feel this exact same way about another person but you may also feel an EQUIVALENT love for someone else, just with a different “flavor” if you will. Don’t give up on people and the prospect of love.
btw it’s good to see you TRSF 🙂 glad you’re still around
Taking risks is also worth it because there is always the chance that you may win the jackpot, even if you had a coin and flipped it 30 times and it fell on tails every time, because of the nature of chance there is ALWAYS the chance it will be heads regardless of the pattern, there is no definite patterns with chance and life is always unpredictable.
Generally people know within 5 seconds of meeting if they fancy the other person. I have a friend who’s been chasing a girl for 3 years. If they play you now they will always play you. Don’t save yourself for someone who doesn’t see how much you’re worth. FUCK THAT. We are worth more and round the corner (when you really let go) is a girl who needs you.. She’s waiting, don’t kill her spirit by wasting too much time on hearts that don’t love you back.
I appreciate all of your advices. I really do.
The problem here is that I don’t want to lose her in any way. I’ve lost so many people, I don’t want to lose her too. Even if that means I must stand by her as she loves somebody else. I don’t care.
It’s not the first time something like this happens to me.
I know it doesn’t make me any good to be there if she does not love me, but I believe it’s worse to lose her. But it’s okay…