Recently I’ve been getting bullied and I have been cutting.
I want to kill myself but, every time I try I just think about my family and friends and how it will reflect on them.
I don’t know what to do because I’m only 12, could anyone please give me some suggestions.
I went and saw a councillor and I have told my mum but, to be honest it hasn’t made any difference.
I also reported the guy to the school but, still no different.
It all started by him going out with me then dumping me for someone else. Then one of his best mates asked me out and I said no so, he got the person that asked me out to start bullying me, that only lasted for a week. So he got his new girlfriend involved but that only lasted a week. He then started calling me names like Fish, Ugly, Fat ect…. I just seriously don’t know what to do.
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Well I am sorry to hear that nobody is helping you in this situation, even after you have spoken up about it. Is there way you can stay away from this person? Like just to stay clear from him n his friends? Like eat on the other side of the cafeteria, go the other way in the hall, change classes if you have any with him.
The school should do something about this. Especially since bullying has become a big problem and there has been more awareness about it. Do you have an older brother or any male friends that could confront this guy? and tell them to leave you alone? What about a Dad? do you have a Dad that could go down to the school and talk to somebody there? They might listen more and do more if that would happen. Also just to let you know…. In life, in the real world often nothing ever gets done about an issue unless a written complaint is filed. Even judges and lawyers will tell you > if the complaint was not filed in writing then it didn’t happen.
I file written complaint to the school board and remember to keep a copy of it for your own records. If you o that and the school does not take action then they can get sued…. so a written filed complaint signed and dated will get the people at your school off their butt and do something about it.
I am also sorry to hear you are going through this at your young age. Please do not cut yourself, there is no need to harm yourself like that > that will only make more problems for yourself. Your parents should be helping you with this situation. Please don’t do anything to harm yourself, you can get through this.
Hello,
I understand you are 12 and you know, at this age, one seems to be too dependent of what others say, think etc. That is why kids are often always seen in groups, not on their own, because they still dont have the personality developed so as to not give a shit about things like that. I think I could lend to you, or you can borrow it from me, this personality of an adult. That is, you should not give a shit about moros or retarded say. What kids usually do is try to make themselves believe they have a personality by putting others down, specially in bullying practices etc. So, you could actually have a laugh at them now that you understand how their stupid childish psychology works.
When you say that talking to a counselor and parents did not make much of a difference, what do you exactly mean? That they did not care? or that despite their care you still feel just as bad?
If the couselor did not care, then that bastard should be fired from his job. If that is the case, you must know that the State has the obligation to protect you until the age of 18, so nobody can ignore you, neither your parents nor the school tutors. Eventually maybe there is some nice kid around with whom you can hang out. If not and you still are feeling that bad and the ones around you don’t get it, don’t hesitate to go to the police and tell them about your situation with all details, even about the cutting. They know they are obliged to help you and they will see to it that you are protected. Otherwise, it could be even prison for them if something should happen to you.
So, for a start you need to stop the cutting because that leads to nowhere. Do as I say and keep us informed.
best greetings.