I am new to talking about my emotions… I guess a little about me. I’m 18 years old I’m a male. I’m tired of everything I go through. I’m emotionally tired and scarred, physically I put a smile and positive attitude on my face… But inside I’m just trying to find the point of getting up anymore. I don’t need to get up I suppose. Anyone want to try to show me a reason?
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I can show you plenty of reasons… you should get up everyday-
1. to see another beautiful morning..
2. to eat another pizza..
3. to listen the latest hit song..
4. to talk with your best friend,
5. to play new video games..
6. to make love to your gf..
7. to party like there’s no tomorrow..
8. to make money and become richer..
so what I am trying to say is- the only reason to keep living is to enjoy life..
sometimes it helps to let our emotions out. A little pity party for ourself is sometimes necessary. take your time to let it all out, until you feel entirely better. i find screaming or even crying useful.
there are also thousands of reasons why you should get up and face the day.
first, today is not the same day as yesterday. Our attitude and perspective towards the day determine how the rest of our day is going to be. Focus on the good things, and you’d find plenty things that can put a smile on your face:)
Second, think about the impact of you being there to other people. There are people out there that need you, or even happy just to see you. However, don’t forget that it is okay to let people know how you are feeling. They might be able help, and support you. At the very least, you have someone to help you through.
those are 2 out of thousands reasons why you should get up and be out there, walk on your day. I hope you can find your own reasons in the future, and wish you the best of luck:)
A pivotal reason to get up everyday is that as you lay in your bed, just as I do, we self loathe and bathe in our bad thoughts.
Not getting up will only bring you into a further recluse of feeling worse about yourself and other things.
I, can not promise, nor can anyone else that getting out of bed will be best for you, but it will be the choice on the long road of recovery to a better place.
And another thing that will help the feelings you have is to accept them and try and talk about them: I know it’s a lot easier said than done. I only told my dad in March that i am suicidial and depressed although I’ve been feeling like this since I was 10.
I am glad you all gave me a few reasons. However I don’t know if I can try that anymore. I’ve done a lot of those things and well my own parents don’t want me so if the ones who brought me into this world don’t, then who does? I’ve waited almost 9 years and not a soul has shown up saying they’d miss me if I was gone… So I can’t see why getting up and trying will be productive?
My best advice is do not give up on life. It might be hard rocky road ahead, but every effort that you make to be better counts.
Do something good for your life, every single day, even when it is a small one. I believe it is going to leave a major impact to your life.
Best of luck:)xx
Thank you I just can’t decide if I want help or try to trek along alone as I always do. I’m glad people are willing to put their input in giving their advice. It gives me more options. But those are still options and I can’t decide anything anymore.
I know everything is easier said than done, i know it is hard for you.
i know starting a change in your life is no easy piece, but it doesnt hurt to try right?
Perhaps, you can talk to me deeper abt your concerns?
I just don’t see the point of trying. That’s why I can’t do it, I don’t see why I should.
maybe you don’t see the point now, but again all i can say is to try. A little push in your life can have huge huge impact for you and people around you. Someday you’ll find your own reason, purpose to really live your life again. After all, you only live once, make it worth.
If you only live once… Why are most people trying to make you quit? Why would anyone want to make someone regret being born? It’s simple… Human nature is to hunt and kill other animals. By all means we are still animals we like to think we are higher minded but in reality we all still live in a kill or be killed world.
I honestly can’t state reasons for your reasons, but what i know is that not all people have good intentions. Sometimes they are simply evil. Okay maybe most people want to see you struggle, but the words here are most people, not all people. There are people care about you and i know i care and support you, take a good look around you and notice the little things that can possibly bring the light to your life.
Life is about challenges, and those are meant to be tackled. And yes, it is also about surviving, but dont you think its not always about to kill or be killed? It is also about enjoying the temporary life we have here