First off, let me say I heard what people say to me about him. I know he is controlling. Unfortunately, it is not in my nature to follow my brain. My heart speaks loud and clear to me. I love him, more than anything in this world. I chose to stay with him. I have given myself up in the process. Deep down I know he doesn’t mean to hurt me, sometimes I don’t even think he knows that he does. My depression is a topic we don’t talk about. He has made it clear that it take more than love for this relationship to work. Love isn’t enough, and it never will be.
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It’s okay to love him, but it’s better not to need him. It doesn’t sound like he will be there for you in a love relationship. I do know that the heart wants what the heart wants. Be strong, for yourself.
You need to take decisions with your conscience not with your subconscious. You are human too, you have needs like hi does, if you don’t respect each other then there is no relationship at all.
“I have given myself up in the process”.
You don’t value yourself enough.
Psychopaths/sociopaths don’t love. They use people until they have no use for them anymore, then they cruelly turn around and ditch them, and all the love and care you had for them meant nothing, because they never felt anything for you (except maybe lust). Leave now before he breaks your heart.
Wise words, Optimus.