- So this guy I started talking to and that liked me told me he’s falling in love with his girlfriend again ok so I bet your confused so his girlfriend lives in Louisiana where he used to live but he moved back to his home town I knew him since 5th grade so he’s falling in love with his girlfriend again I feel so stupid for trusting him he was my first kiss but Im not sure if I regret it I told him so much about me how I was depressed and that I cut and he was depressed too and cut I actually felt like I had someone but now I have no one I feel so worthless again I fell for him to hard I feel so stupid my cousin even told me don’t trust him he’s going to hurt you I should have listened to her I guess I just wanted someone to love me and tell me I would be ok now I’m alone and not ok I even promised him I wouldn’t cut and he told me don’t cut after he hurt me but I said I can’t promise you that e said write your feelings down I said no I’m all alone and broken So guys give me advice tell me what you think and tell me something that can help me not feel so alone
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I actually think writing your feelings down is a good idea. I do it often. If you don’t like writing in a journal, write them here instead. In a way, you kinda did take his advise after all. I hope this helps some.
People, esp young people, change. What was good for a smooch yesterday may not be today. Did he flake out on you? Well, yeah, he did that. That may not be smart but it ain’t no crime.
You should rejoice! You just passed the first step in the tutorial on love. You should get an Xbox badge. You are starting a wondrous game that will last the rest of your life. Level up! Be proud.
Look at it this way- this was the first guy you ever kissed, the first guy you fell for; unfortunately, it didn’t work out. And that does suck, but it doesn’t mean that you love life is over. I fell really, really hard for a guy, and he broke my heart into a trillion pieces. At the time, I thought I wouldn’t survive, but I have since met some truly nice guys. Don’t take relationships too seriously in the beginning- when we are young, we are young and stupid. This guys was stupid because he left. My guy was stupid because he cheated. And you should be rejoicing! You had your first kiss!! That is freaking AWESOME!! If you learn from this experience, it will help you in your first true relationship.