can love turns to hate at some point .!
I want to talk clearly about my boyfriend ..
I believe that he really loved me from the depth of his heart
I will not lie to you .. I did so wrong things to him ,, I cheated on him so many times , and I used him as my slave for a whole three years .. all this time he was okay and never said a word
but once we had a sex on skype
and he got a pic of that thing and he started threaten me with it … when I told him I will get engaged to another guy he told me he will use them to stop this engagement .. when I told him I only want to break up with him he used them too .. when I told him I can’t stand this shit anymore and I hate him he used them too to make me stay with him
and then he is gone for a 17 days I though that shit is over .. then he came back to me with thous pics again
he used to cry when he founds that I cheated on him
but then he start shouting and swearing
and then he starts to beat me and then the pics again
and now he just threat me with the pics for now reason and asks if I am seeing any other guy eventhough he broke up with me
what the hell is this shit .! I don’t understand anything of this shit and I don’t really get what’s going on with him
is anybody have an idea .!!
help pleas …
2 comments
He enjoys powers and he’s trying to manipulate you. This guy has problems. He’s sick. Even though he broke up with you, you can’t move forward. He wants control. His absence for 17-days is because he wanted to be away. He still wants to control you whether he’s gone or not. Even his “crying” might be trying to control you.
He is bad news. I’m sorry that he’s hurting and beating you. If you can permanently get away from him, that seems like a good idea.
I think the best thing is to never go back, or even contact him when you have the option not to. Never mention it as a possibility to him. Just keep saying, calmly, that it’s over. It sounds like you hurt and used him and now he’s trying to take revenge and use and control you – to extremes that no one should ever go to. It’s emotionally abusive as well as physically. If this isn’t something you can contact the police about then the best thing you can do is never give him the power and control that he’s looking for. He won’t keep doing this forever if he gets no response.