so i was recently dating this guy we dated for almost two years… as you can probably imagine i was or still am in love with that guy… he messed up many times during the relationship and i always forgave him everytime! in november he started acting weird with me and he didn’t really seem to care about our relationship that much he would ignore me when we would go to family parties and just text me even thought i would be right there. i made me feel bad like he didn’t care! soon enough he became more distant we would go to dates and he wouldn’t even talk or make an effort to talk to me he would simply just ignore me and i could tell he wasn’t into me anymore. so i broke up with him … we never really stopped talking we would still see each other and pretty much act like boyfriend and girlfriend, yesterday we finally talked about what we were and he told he he still loved me .. he said things that i have herd him say before and we agreed that we were talking again. while i was sending a picture to my phone from his i saw that there was a picture of him and a girl making out it hurt me a lot because he’s been treating me like his girlfriend all this time and that happend, i got super mad and depressed over that it just hurts a lot , i know he deserves to move on but i just don’t understand why he fooled me like that. and now he decided that he’s not sure what he wants and doesn’t think we should talk anymore, and im basically heart broken! am i stupid for feeling like this ?? should i just move on? does it mean he’s into that girl?
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I can’t tell. But I am sorry. I know saying you deserve better isn’t what you want to hear, but you deserve better. Maybe you are scare of letting him go, but don’t tie yourself to a man that can’t tell if he loves you. He doesn’t want to find it out or he would have a long time ago. We cant judge his reasons. He might be the person you want now, but we can’t control other people.
You deserve better, don’t spend your energy in a relationship that is bringing you down. Spend your time in this life looking for things that may give you sime peace and maybe joy too… I dont know… but this last part sounds more logical in this moment.
Please move on. Woman’s intuition is almost always right. I’m sure you already figured what’s going on, you’re just scared to move on. That’s okay. Sometimes breaking up takes time, it doesn’t always happen overnight. Good luck.