Goals

There’s the saying, “when you find yourself in a hole, stop digging.”
Another saying or teaching is that there is an outer world and an inner world. Anything in the outer world (all the stuff you mentioned) is extremely temporary and can never give you lasting happiness. It’ll just be frustrating and empty. I haven’t found that inner world yet, so I can’t verify that it’s worth getting, but maybe it’s better than the outer world? Who knows. Stay curious.