I know someone on here had a post similar to this but after you’ve had trauma attempted suicide are depressed anxious self harm have suicidal thoughts etc can you really come back from all that ? being the happy out going person u once was ? Or are u pass the point of no return the damage is already done kind of thing game over
how many people have actually won the battle to live a so called normal life?
and how many people have commit suicide what’s the odds I say suicide wins by far what’s everyone view on the subject ?
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I have win it. A couple times now.
Won. Damn smart phone. I’ve been through many rock bottom moments. I have no idea why I bounce back and come back out fighting. If could bottle my stupid assed naive optimism I’d give out for free to all you folks with the disclaimer that it won’t prevent the pain of a broken heart.
That’s good to hear hazy that you bounce back what keeps you fighting on ? May I ask
Absolutely no clue. I live in the fear of someday not bouncing back.
I have been at rock bottom many times starting when I was a teenager. I’m doing ok now. I quit all my meds and quit my overly stressful job. I am 40 yrs old and I have no husband or children. I thought I could never go on but I have. I haven’t thought about suicide in a couple of months. I am struggling to find a job and have a good interview tomorrow. I don’t know why I feel hopeful but I do. Part of it is taking control and responsibility for my own life. Part of it is letting go of my perceived judgements from society. I do believe that you can move on but it takes some effort. You have to fight for your life one day and one step at a time. I’m sorry you are suffering. I hope you find peace.
Hey Dyinginny,
Nice to see you are doing fine. I am glad to read this. I wish you success and luck on tomorrow’s interview. 🙂
Hugs
Thanks Moneypenny!!! I need all the luck I can get, lol. I hope you are well too. ?
I’d say it’s a constant struggle, but one that can be won, with a few relapses here and there. I have a few examples of that around me too, so… yup. That highly depends on the person, the situation, and their surroundings tho.
The ? Was supposed to be a smiley face, lol
First of all, I want to acknowledge your courage through everything you are going through. Many people don’t realize that there is so much going on inside, and you’re constantly fighting. I see the fighter in you and I refuse to let this darkness you are in eat you alive and take you down. Suicide attempts are brutal, and getting over that is a long challenge. For me, it’s been a constant work in progress in the healing process from it. It’s tough, but manageable. It is exhausting, but worth the effort. It will tear you apart, but you will also smile again. It seems unimaginable at times, yet it is definitely achievable- regardless as to how damn shitty you actually feel sometimes. You can get through this, and you WILL get through it.
Never give up on yourself. I will always tell you that, because that is the biggest lesson I have learned. I wish someone would have emphasized to me how important that was, not just to not give up, but not to give up on myself. You’re not alone, you definitely are not alone.
Thanks Sami