The ultimate betrayal…….

Sorry that you are hurting. That’s a terrible situation. It’s almost a shame that you found that information out, since the event is over a year old and you’ve mostly moved on. We have to protect ourselves after something painful happens, so I’m not sure how you came across that information, but if it’s because of still being linked to certain people on social media, or hearing it from a mutual friend, you just end up reopening your own wounds when you don’t make sure all the windows and doors are shut tight so you don’t find out anything painful. Maybe you didnt do anything to find out and someone just told you. Maybe it’s for the best that you know. It probably wasn’t fun not knowing exactly why everything had ended, and hopefully it helps you move forward knowing you were dealing with dishonest and disloyal people. It’s okay to be mad at your friend but your wife played a part in whatever happened, it doesn’t sound like she was forced to do anything at gunpoint. If your wife wasn’t committed to being loyal, it could have been your friend or anyone else. As hard as it is, when these things happen we just have to look at it like these people did you a favor by revealing their true colors, before you wasted additional months and years of your time with unworthy people. I hope finding out this info will just be a brief speed bump for you and you can get back on the road you were on already having a year and a half of distance from everything that happened. You’ve survived this long. I know it always hurts to feel like we found the one and then being rudely awakened from that dream and finding ourselves alone again. I hope some day someone better comes into your life.