I feel the same way, if anyone was to ever show interest in me I’d wonder what they wanted, or I’d think they were playing some prank on me. I don’t know which is worse my looks or my self esteem and confidence.
It’s always much easier to find people who’d want to sleep with you than it is to find someone who will want to get to know you, become attached, and later genuinely believe they “love” and deeply care for you (with romantic sentiments).
Most folks ARE perfectly lovable, but at the same time most don’t feel like they are, so how can two people who both think they’re unlovable, find love? You need to change your attitude towards yourself first.
You might want to squeeze as much pleasure from them as you possibly could. This may be hard to believe, but some people will love your company. It will make them very happy, just being near you.
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Wait till it happens. I’m sure it will
I feel the same way, if anyone was to ever show interest in me I’d wonder what they wanted, or I’d think they were playing some prank on me. I don’t know which is worse my looks or my self esteem and confidence.
It’s not about being perfect or finding someone perfect. It’s about being two.
It’s always much easier to find people who’d want to sleep with you than it is to find someone who will want to get to know you, become attached, and later genuinely believe they “love” and deeply care for you (with romantic sentiments).
Most folks ARE perfectly lovable, but at the same time most don’t feel like they are, so how can two people who both think they’re unlovable, find love? You need to change your attitude towards yourself first.
Why would someone want to love a suicidal girl?
To be happy
How can you love someone who might commit suicide any minute because of their mind and their thoughts?
That is one aspect of who you are, not the only defining factor, Mehikka.
We will see
You might want to squeeze as much pleasure from them as you possibly could. This may be hard to believe, but some people will love your company. It will make them very happy, just being near you.
I can imagine ever getting “better” what is “better” anyway?
can’t*