I wish there was a way to get the college to support me like they should have done last year. My assault was not a lie, it was not a joke and it wasn’t to get back at my ex. In fact, I don’t even love him anymore but the battle to get him out of that college after what he did to me still continues.
It’s not about getting him back, this very thing happened to me and it has scarred. If the safeguarding team actually want to do their job properly, they would at least put him on report. It upsets me deeply that they did not help me last year, that the only option was to transfer colleges and spend a year away from friends who I can’t see.
I want them to sort it out for me this time. To know that this isn’t a typical story of a normal breakup gone sour. It’s the fact that I was assaulted… and to me, that kills.
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heyyy love
i swear i was just gonna write you a comment on your previous post
as sad as it makes me to read how you’re hurting
I’m glad u’r here <3
Yeah, I’ve just been feeling very drained lately. It angers me so much that the safeguarding team have failed me. That they took the support out of my hands and stomped it into the dirt. Makes me want to go into a rage.
<3 <3 <3
if only i could hug you all day long
<3
honey
I know that this painful for you
my heart & prayers go to you
but as we spoke before
the only way out of this is through it
now the way i see this
is that we do EVERYTHING we possibly can
okay
can u tell me if it’s still possible to file a case/petition with your requests?
I’m not sure. All I want is justice. I’m not the type of person who would go any waking day letting somebody like that get away with the shit they smeared all over my heart.
rightfully so
love
you’re not over-reacting
it’s okay
the important thing here is that we take actual legal/formal steps
u understand ?
perhaps if u could meet with a councilor / consultant at ur college
that understands the dynamics & the rules
explain the details of how things went wrong
& ask him straight out
“what are the available options for me now?”
I’ll see if I can arrange a meeting with a counsellor tomorrow. I know she works for my old college, too. So, I’ll see if she can help find a way. Because if they can’t mark it down as “rape” it can at least be added as “sexual assault”.
great!
there you go 🙂
it’s even more amazing that it’s a lady
I’m sure she’ll be able to understand the whole incident better
honey
we are gonna do everything we can okay
let’s give this all we’v got
& I’m positive that you will get your justice
but even if,
in worst case scenario
this doesn’t happen
or not as we wished it to
at least you’ll know
that you’ve done your best
& u tried until there was absolutely nothing more left to do
& that you didn’t just sit there & do nothing about it
okay…
I’m sure that this, in and of itself, will help you greatly in healing & moving on
okay love <3
i'm with u every step of the way
I’ve given you an email.